"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hooked up with a girl before she went out on a date.

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Alright, I made an account JUST for this...

Yesterday, I get a call from a friend who tells me that she has a date later on in the night. She wants to hang out.

Cool, right? No. See, the whole thing just felt weird to me.

It just seems like a complete mindfvck thrown into a blender full of "What the hell?!" ...

Now all I can think about is... How many girls have done this? How many guys have done this? What if I make out with a girl at a club or bar who's fvcked or sucked **** not 2 hours before hand? Damn, that's dirty. Or, oops, I mean..
Mmmm! Semen laced lips! Damn, that's tasty!

No, really. Have any of you ever thought of this? Were you just as weirded out as I am? ...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I don't get it.
She wants to hang out AFTER her date?

Or she wanted to hang out before the date?
And if she is your "friend"... why are you worried about kissing her lips???

That small post just has too much going on in there.

And why would you think about this? This could happen at any given time. Stop overthinking this.
 
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Mackie said:
Alright, I made an account JUST for this...

Yesterday, I get a call from a friend who tells me that she has a date later on in the night. She wants to hang out.

Cool, right? No. See, the whole thing just felt weird to me.

It just seems like a complete mindfvck thrown into a blender full of "What the hell?!" ...

Now all I can think about is... How many girls have done this? How many guys have done this? What if I make out with a girl at a club or bar who's fvcked or sucked **** not 2 hours before hand? Damn, that's dirty. Or, oops, I mean..
Mmmm! Semen laced lips! Damn, that's tasty!

No, really. Have any of you ever thought of this? Were you just as weirded out as I am? ...
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Can´t understand, dude. Try to explain it well, ok?
 
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Haha, wow.

I re-read my post and I'm amazed.

Anyway, let me re-cap (with little to no detail); Last night she calls and asks to hang out before the date. She came over, we hooked up, she left. Keep in mind, while I referred to her as a 'friend', she's a fvck buddy.

I don't know why, it just seems weird to me.

I'm just asking, has anyone ever had similar thoughts? What if your date had been with a guy only HOURS before your date?

It'll be no big deal tomorrow, or the next day, but since this was so recent it's stuck in my mind.
 
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You might be feeling guily or weird about dating such a ho...there are girls are there that FVCK a guy hours or even like a half hour before they meet their dates, who whine & dine them. (so fvck from one guy, then a nice meal from another)

Think if you were on the recieving end. You date a girl who just gave a dude a ******* 30 minutes before your date...thats pretty messed up

(if I understood your predicament correctly)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Black Dog said:
Think if you were on the recieving end. You date a girl who just gave a dude a ******* 30 minutes before your date...thats pretty messed up

(if I understood your predicament correctly)
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I'm not feeling guilty, i'm not even feeling bad for the guy she went on a date with afterward.

I'm just thinking to myself; That guy has no idea... And what if I've been *that guy* before? But that's not what the thread's about.

I'm just wondering if this is really all that common. Seems like it is. Weird.
 
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starplayer said:
This reminded me of something Tucker Max wrote about a while back.

http://www.tuckermax.com/archives/entries/date/tucker_has_moment_of_reflection_ends_poorly.phtml#282

It could have happened to any of us before. Scary thought.
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Oh, I can definitely relate to this, except... She came over to his house just to give him head? And he told her to buy him beer? Man, this guy just doesn't give a fvck; I love it.

However... I'm going to assume he blew his load into her mouth instead of a rubber, so he definitely had a lot more to think about. Still gross.

And to what I said above? Scratch that. I guess it's A LOT more common than I thought.
 
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Mackie said:
Oh, I can definitely relate to this, except... She came over to his house just to give him head? And he told her to buy him beer? Man, this guy just doesn't give a fvck; I love it.

However... I'm going to assume he blew his load into her mouth instead of a rubber, so he definitely had a lot more to think about. Still gross.

And to what I said above? Scratch that. I guess it's A LOT more common than I thought.
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Unfortunately. B*TCHES huh


thats the article I was thinking about, I couldnt remember the name, but yea good bringing it up Star, when I first read it I was like 'wow this guys a douche' then I read some more and saw the girls actions.....and theres definately more girls like her around..his action pale in comparision to the other slvtty actions
 
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the funny thing about the Tucker Max story is that that girl got serious wiht the guy she went on the date with after giving TM a BJ !
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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whats the problem? guys do this all the time. we hook up with one and go out if we can.

stop judging.
 
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Amazing said:
whats the problem? guys do this all the time. we hook up with one and go out if we can.

stop judging.
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Hey, if it wouldnt bother you to make out with a chick right after she slurped another dudes nob, more power to you. Personally, I'm not gay, and I would NOT be OK with that, and any chick that would do that, is FVCKED up, and deserves to get her teeth kicked in.

Anyone remember THIS thread??? http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=157987

The ****ing ***** shows up at my house with come in her hair --FROM THE FVCKING CAB DRIVER.

FVCK'EM AND DUMP'EM. PERIOD.
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horaholic said:
Hey, if it wouldnt bother you to make out with a chick right after she slurped another dudes nob, more power to you. Personally, I'm not gay, and I would NOT be OK with that, and any chick that would do that, is FVCKED up, and deserves to get her teeth kicked in.

Anyone remember THIS thread??? http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=157987
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I would hope she took a shower.


You, on the other hand, have some serious issues with women
 
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