"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hooked up with a girl before she went out on a date.

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Alright, I made an account JUST for this...

Yesterday, I get a call from a friend who tells me that she has a date later on in the night. She wants to hang out.

Cool, right? No. See, the whole thing just felt weird to me.

It just seems like a complete mindfvck thrown into a blender full of "What the hell?!" ...

Now all I can think about is... How many girls have done this? How many guys have done this? What if I make out with a girl at a club or bar who's fvcked or sucked **** not 2 hours before hand? Damn, that's dirty. Or, oops, I mean..
Mmmm! Semen laced lips! Damn, that's tasty!

No, really. Have any of you ever thought of this? Were you just as weirded out as I am? ...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I don't get it.
She wants to hang out AFTER her date?

Or she wanted to hang out before the date?
And if she is your "friend"... why are you worried about kissing her lips???

That small post just has too much going on in there.

And why would you think about this? This could happen at any given time. Stop overthinking this.
 
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Mackie said:
Alright, I made an account JUST for this...

Yesterday, I get a call from a friend who tells me that she has a date later on in the night. She wants to hang out.

Cool, right? No. See, the whole thing just felt weird to me.

It just seems like a complete mindfvck thrown into a blender full of "What the hell?!" ...

Now all I can think about is... How many girls have done this? How many guys have done this? What if I make out with a girl at a club or bar who's fvcked or sucked **** not 2 hours before hand? Damn, that's dirty. Or, oops, I mean..
Mmmm! Semen laced lips! Damn, that's tasty!

No, really. Have any of you ever thought of this? Were you just as weirded out as I am? ...
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Can´t understand, dude. Try to explain it well, ok?
 
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Haha, wow.

I re-read my post and I'm amazed.

Anyway, let me re-cap (with little to no detail); Last night she calls and asks to hang out before the date. She came over, we hooked up, she left. Keep in mind, while I referred to her as a 'friend', she's a fvck buddy.

I don't know why, it just seems weird to me.

I'm just asking, has anyone ever had similar thoughts? What if your date had been with a guy only HOURS before your date?

It'll be no big deal tomorrow, or the next day, but since this was so recent it's stuck in my mind.
 
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You might be feeling guily or weird about dating such a ho...there are girls are there that FVCK a guy hours or even like a half hour before they meet their dates, who whine & dine them. (so fvck from one guy, then a nice meal from another)

Think if you were on the recieving end. You date a girl who just gave a dude a ******* 30 minutes before your date...thats pretty messed up

(if I understood your predicament correctly)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Black Dog said:
Think if you were on the recieving end. You date a girl who just gave a dude a ******* 30 minutes before your date...thats pretty messed up

(if I understood your predicament correctly)
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I'm not feeling guilty, i'm not even feeling bad for the guy she went on a date with afterward.

I'm just thinking to myself; That guy has no idea... And what if I've been *that guy* before? But that's not what the thread's about.

I'm just wondering if this is really all that common. Seems like it is. Weird.
 
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starplayer said:
This reminded me of something Tucker Max wrote about a while back.

http://www.tuckermax.com/archives/entries/date/tucker_has_moment_of_reflection_ends_poorly.phtml#282

It could have happened to any of us before. Scary thought.
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Oh, I can definitely relate to this, except... She came over to his house just to give him head? And he told her to buy him beer? Man, this guy just doesn't give a fvck; I love it.

However... I'm going to assume he blew his load into her mouth instead of a rubber, so he definitely had a lot more to think about. Still gross.

And to what I said above? Scratch that. I guess it's A LOT more common than I thought.
 
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Mackie said:
Oh, I can definitely relate to this, except... She came over to his house just to give him head? And he told her to buy him beer? Man, this guy just doesn't give a fvck; I love it.

However... I'm going to assume he blew his load into her mouth instead of a rubber, so he definitely had a lot more to think about. Still gross.

And to what I said above? Scratch that. I guess it's A LOT more common than I thought.
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Unfortunately. B*TCHES huh


thats the article I was thinking about, I couldnt remember the name, but yea good bringing it up Star, when I first read it I was like 'wow this guys a douche' then I read some more and saw the girls actions.....and theres definately more girls like her around..his action pale in comparision to the other slvtty actions
 
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the funny thing about the Tucker Max story is that that girl got serious wiht the guy she went on the date with after giving TM a BJ !
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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whats the problem? guys do this all the time. we hook up with one and go out if we can.

stop judging.
 
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Amazing said:
whats the problem? guys do this all the time. we hook up with one and go out if we can.

stop judging.
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Hey, if it wouldnt bother you to make out with a chick right after she slurped another dudes nob, more power to you. Personally, I'm not gay, and I would NOT be OK with that, and any chick that would do that, is FVCKED up, and deserves to get her teeth kicked in.

Anyone remember THIS thread??? http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=157987

The ****ing ***** shows up at my house with come in her hair --FROM THE FVCKING CAB DRIVER.

FVCK'EM AND DUMP'EM. PERIOD.
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horaholic said:
Hey, if it wouldnt bother you to make out with a chick right after she slurped another dudes nob, more power to you. Personally, I'm not gay, and I would NOT be OK with that, and any chick that would do that, is FVCKED up, and deserves to get her teeth kicked in.

Anyone remember THIS thread??? http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=157987
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I would hope she took a shower.


You, on the other hand, have some serious issues with women
 
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