Hooked up.....now what

[OldNumb3r7]

Friday night me and a friend of my ex's hooked up. This was the first chick that I really practiced some DJ stuff on. Shes really hot and alot of guys pay alot of attention to her. I was always c/f with her and didnt give her too much attention. Well on friday she invited me back to her apt. We ended up doing alot of stuff that night and it was awsome.

Question is where to go from here? If it was a one time thing Im down. I just dont want to get all AFC. I only called her once the day after bc there was a party going down that our group was friends headed to.

 

[Ojete]

Congratulations on your first setps
Now you have to accomodate to your new skills. You attracted her, and that was the outcome. Don't get too interested in her now, keep practicing your DJ skills, go out, socialize and meet other women, keep yourself busy and if she's interested she will call you to get together again. You have already called her. Avoid getting one-itis. You don't know her well.

Keep practicing and good luck!!

 

[OldNumb3r7]

thanks man. I met another chick on thurs night who I havent called yet. The one I hooked up with was there and I think she was trying to gain my attention away from the other one. So Ill give the other chick a call like I said and prob take her out this week.

 

[OldNumb3r7]

Went out with the other chick last night. We hit up some karoke. Ihad a damn good time met up with some friends etc. I had her laughing all night, kino, all that jazz. She just seems a little too conservative for me. Example. We were driving to get some food and I had some music on and during one of the yelling type parts I said "ok its your turn to scream". Shes like "no ill be embarrassed, Im not a screamer" I said "Not a screamer? Any girl thats with me is a screamer or ill make her one". She was dying after that........good time, but i dont think shes my type. But Ill stay cool with her. nice chick.

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

hey nice to see your having fun with a 2nd girl but that was a bad move, it seems you have mixed up the information you have read. It is good to give attention to other girls infront of your girl, but you should never hook up with some one else, that will tell the first girl shes your seocnd choice, and that your not serious aobut her, she will hate it and that was a bad move. You can not date lots of girls at the same time, well you can but its not good, only date her, keep on doing so.

 

[OldNumb3r7]

thanks for the reply. Im not dating either though. I just met the one I took out last night. Ive known the one I hooked up with for about 2 months now.