"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hookah Lounge Scam experience

doctor1996

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Friend called me, went to a hookah lounge for an hour. I don't smoke hookah. I am in the process of bulking up. Regardless, I see 5 girls at a time walking in, and taking pictures with some shady guys in the corner. But some of these girls were attractive. I tried to talk to one that was sitting, and waiting for her turn. I start to ask questions. She gives me attitude, and says she has a boyfriend, and I say "Cool, you weren't good enough for me anyway" and walk away. I tried making eye contact with the blonde hair chick, but she wasn't receptive my initiation. She acted like she had some authority as well. So I let her go, she wasn't good enough for me anyway.

This modeling was a scam, and I can't believe these girls were idiotic enough to believe it, and actually spend money. I was kind of amused actually. Talked to the owner actually, and he told me these dudes pay him money to do this. I mean who wouldn't? When you see attractive females, it's going to attract a crowd.

Was I acting like a d1ck?

Did I do the right thing?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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marmel75

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Do you realize how stupid it sounds to say "a girl isn't good enough for me" after she turned you down? Even more stupid to actually SAY that to a woman after she shoots you down.

If she wasn't good enough for you, you wouldnt have approached her in the first place.

Let's be real OP, stop trying to protect your fragile ego. Keep approaching and stop getting your panties in a bunch when you get shot down. It's irrelevant...its also very commonplace in clubs/bars where women have their shields turned up to the max...
 

doctor1996

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Do you realize how stupid it sounds to say "a girl isn't good enough for me" after she turned you down?

If she wasn't good enough for you, you wouldnt have approached her in the first place. Let's be real OP, stop trying to protect your fragile ego.
I already have one girl blowing up my phone.. and at least I'm trying.

And she had an attitude.. So I mean. Do I really think shes good enough for me. Yeah I approached her. So what?

The only reason I approached her was because that other girl I was trying to make eye contact was doing that scam walking around like a retard, so this girl was sitting, and she wasn't even my type. I just wanted to see how far I could go.
 
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