"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hookah Lounge Scam experience

doctor1996

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Friend called me, went to a hookah lounge for an hour. I don't smoke hookah. I am in the process of bulking up. Regardless, I see 5 girls at a time walking in, and taking pictures with some shady guys in the corner. But some of these girls were attractive. I tried to talk to one that was sitting, and waiting for her turn. I start to ask questions. She gives me attitude, and says she has a boyfriend, and I say "Cool, you weren't good enough for me anyway" and walk away. I tried making eye contact with the blonde hair chick, but she wasn't receptive my initiation. She acted like she had some authority as well. So I let her go, she wasn't good enough for me anyway.

This modeling was a scam, and I can't believe these girls were idiotic enough to believe it, and actually spend money. I was kind of amused actually. Talked to the owner actually, and he told me these dudes pay him money to do this. I mean who wouldn't? When you see attractive females, it's going to attract a crowd.

Was I acting like a d1ck?

Did I do the right thing?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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marmel75

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Do you realize how stupid it sounds to say "a girl isn't good enough for me" after she turned you down? Even more stupid to actually SAY that to a woman after she shoots you down.

If she wasn't good enough for you, you wouldnt have approached her in the first place.

Let's be real OP, stop trying to protect your fragile ego. Keep approaching and stop getting your panties in a bunch when you get shot down. It's irrelevant...its also very commonplace in clubs/bars where women have their shields turned up to the max...
 

doctor1996

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Do you realize how stupid it sounds to say "a girl isn't good enough for me" after she turned you down?

If she wasn't good enough for you, you wouldnt have approached her in the first place. Let's be real OP, stop trying to protect your fragile ego.
I already have one girl blowing up my phone.. and at least I'm trying.

And she had an attitude.. So I mean. Do I really think shes good enough for me. Yeah I approached her. So what?

The only reason I approached her was because that other girl I was trying to make eye contact was doing that scam walking around like a retard, so this girl was sitting, and she wasn't even my type. I just wanted to see how far I could go.
 
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