Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Hood Girls vs. Valley Girls

LADawg49

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Question yall, which type of women do u all prefer(find it easier to appraoch), women from the hood or women from the Suburbs? I personally have found hood women to be much more approachable and less picky when it comes to looks, money, status, etc.. Would DJ principles from the DJ Bible more likely work on hood or suburban girls? Holla back.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It depends...You have hood girls and suburb girls who are more down to earth and laid back, and you have some hood/suburban girls who are materialistic as hell...
 

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Im assuming your from la..... I'm from nyc and recently went to Los angeles last month. I couldn't tell if they were fromm the hood or the valley but all of them were responsive to me. Maybe because of the newyork accent or so. But I tell you this 80% of NYC women are *****es. From the hood or not. Most Ny women mentalities are "what can you give me" "What can you offer me". Cause rent is due.
I simply tell them 9 inches.
 

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yeah I live in L.A. 91.. what part of L.A. did u visit? I be everywhere from the San Fernando Valley to Beverly Hills to South Central, Inglewood, Long Beach, etc. as for the girls, Ive personally found the ones from the hood to be more approachable and more willing to give the phone number. Me and homeboy last Friday were cruisin down Crenshaw(in South Central) and saw group of fine honeys at the parkin lot. We didn't holla though cause from their clothin(red), we could tell they were Bloods, and soon enough I see them meetin up with a group of Bloods. Don't wanna get in trouble over one woman, since there are so many out there.
 

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I was staying in Studio city. But I went all around from Beverly Hills, Santa monica, venice beach , the valley and a few other places.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I dont like dealing with hood rats because they always got some thugged out brothers or some sh1t hangin around. Id much rather go for some suburban ***** with a crazy father then some hood rat connected with gangstas.
 

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So Many Ways, what part of Long Beach are the parties at? Im very familiar with tha area since I used to visit my ex(when I was with her) at her work over there.. Hook me up with some of the spots.
 

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Originally posted by LADawg49
So Many Ways, what part of Long Beach are the parties at? Im very familiar with tha area since I used to visit my ex(when I was with her) at her work over there.. Hook me up with some of the spots.
Just go to pine street in downtown long beach. There is also gameworks but it's not really poppin anymore. If you really want to shoot fish out the barrel, go down there when the long beach grand prix races happen during the spring.

Hit up Pine Street on Saturday night. You'll see a few shorties around there. Let's see, there's cohivas, mariposas, momos a couple of other places as well. There is also yardhouse which is all the way down pine past Ocean on the peninsula.
 
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