"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Honest opinions please guys.

TonyBaloney

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Hey guys,

Im a 39 year old DJ.

Only been on this board a short while, and find it very honest and informative.

I must say that I'm getting a bit if age related anxiety. I'm fit, dress well (not gonna say I look young for my age, i remember thinking "yeah right" when people used to say that about themselves ;)

My question is - what kinda age bracket of women do u think I could go for now? Any ideas where I can find them too?

Whats your opinion about older guys/younger girls?

Tony
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ilikecharlene

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I'm 32, and want to date women older (say 40-49). Most women younger are too stuck up IMO. To answer your question, well why not hit the mid-20s girls?

Of course, older women are starting to lose their looks, but on a regular basis I see older women who still have it in some sense. I think it's because of the country I live in, since women tend to age well here.
 

Mike32ct

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TonyBaloney said:
Hey guys,

Im a 39 year old DJ.

Only been on this board a short while, and find it very honest and informative.

I must say that I'm getting a bit if age related anxiety.

Yeah I started to get that after say 34.

I'm fit, dress well (not gonna say I look young for my age, i remember thinking "yeah right" when people used to say that about themselves ;)

Some people really do look young for their age. However, I agree that everyone wants to think that whether it's true or not lol. But let's be conservative and assume that you look late 30s.

My question is - what kinda age bracket of women do u think I could go for now? Any ideas where I can find them too?

Certainly anything in the 30s is fair game. There are some hot broads around 30 to 34.

My ideal right now is about 31ish.

I mean it's quite possible to get a late 20something, but I'll have to defer to the other guys that have more experience with that.

I personally don't even try to talk to 20somethings anymore. I like their looks but hate their attitude. Maybe I'm cutting myself short...?


Whats your opinion about older guys/younger girls?

It depends. For a hookup, it's no issue. For a serious relationship, I'd probably only feel comfortable with a maybe 6 year difference. It's a personal preference. I know a couple with a 13 year difference that gets along great.
Tony
Just my 2 cents.
 

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Younger women are crazy, retarded, and immature. You could easily find some good looking, mature ones in their 30s. I see them all the time.
 

Down Low

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TonyBaloney said:
Hey guys,

Im a 39 year old DJ.

Only been on this board a short while, and find it very honest and informative.

I must say that I'm getting a bit if age related anxiety. I'm fit, dress well (not gonna say I look young for my age, i remember thinking "yeah right" when people used to say that about themselves ;)

My question is - what kinda age bracket of women do u think I could go for now? Any ideas where I can find them too?

Whats your opinion about older guys/younger girls?

Tony
A man can lie to his friends, he can lie to himself, but he can't lie to his d1ck.

Young gets you sprung.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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