"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Honest opinions please guys.

TonyBaloney

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Hey guys,

Im a 39 year old DJ.

Only been on this board a short while, and find it very honest and informative.

I must say that I'm getting a bit if age related anxiety. I'm fit, dress well (not gonna say I look young for my age, i remember thinking "yeah right" when people used to say that about themselves ;)

My question is - what kinda age bracket of women do u think I could go for now? Any ideas where I can find them too?

Whats your opinion about older guys/younger girls?

Tony
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm 32, and want to date women older (say 40-49). Most women younger are too stuck up IMO. To answer your question, well why not hit the mid-20s girls?

Of course, older women are starting to lose their looks, but on a regular basis I see older women who still have it in some sense. I think it's because of the country I live in, since women tend to age well here.
 

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TonyBaloney said:
Hey guys,

Im a 39 year old DJ.

Only been on this board a short while, and find it very honest and informative.

I must say that I'm getting a bit if age related anxiety.

Yeah I started to get that after say 34.

I'm fit, dress well (not gonna say I look young for my age, i remember thinking "yeah right" when people used to say that about themselves ;)

Some people really do look young for their age. However, I agree that everyone wants to think that whether it's true or not lol. But let's be conservative and assume that you look late 30s.

My question is - what kinda age bracket of women do u think I could go for now? Any ideas where I can find them too?

Certainly anything in the 30s is fair game. There are some hot broads around 30 to 34.

My ideal right now is about 31ish.

I mean it's quite possible to get a late 20something, but I'll have to defer to the other guys that have more experience with that.

I personally don't even try to talk to 20somethings anymore. I like their looks but hate their attitude. Maybe I'm cutting myself short...?


Whats your opinion about older guys/younger girls?

It depends. For a hookup, it's no issue. For a serious relationship, I'd probably only feel comfortable with a maybe 6 year difference. It's a personal preference. I know a couple with a 13 year difference that gets along great.
Tony
Just my 2 cents.
 

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Younger women are crazy, retarded, and immature. You could easily find some good looking, mature ones in their 30s. I see them all the time.
 

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TonyBaloney said:
Hey guys,

Im a 39 year old DJ.

Only been on this board a short while, and find it very honest and informative.

I must say that I'm getting a bit if age related anxiety. I'm fit, dress well (not gonna say I look young for my age, i remember thinking "yeah right" when people used to say that about themselves ;)

My question is - what kinda age bracket of women do u think I could go for now? Any ideas where I can find them too?

Whats your opinion about older guys/younger girls?

Tony
A man can lie to his friends, he can lie to himself, but he can't lie to his d1ck.

Young gets you sprung.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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