"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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HOMELESS PEOPLE can teach all the AFC's something

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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upsidedownside7

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This is pointless.

Problem being the homeless guy is homeless. He works hard at begging but the dude has the same initial problem, what made this guy get to the point of losing his home?

Same goes to the aspiring pick up artist. He's not very good but he works and works and works. The PUA has the same initial problem, what happened to make this guy so frightened with women?

Being persistently sucky won't solve the problem.
 

AtomicDog

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We can all learn from the homeless guys.

The only way I got my job was persistance. Every day got up early, signed up to agencies, sent lots of emails, phone every company in the white pages. Travelled to at least 10 interviews.

Then deciding which job was good enough for me -- $$$-wise and conditions-wise. Now I've laid the perfect job, and already I feel like leaving because the others are clammering for me, offering more pay!

Same with women.
 
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