"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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HOMELESS PEOPLE can teach all the AFC's something

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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upsidedownside7

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This is pointless.

Problem being the homeless guy is homeless. He works hard at begging but the dude has the same initial problem, what made this guy get to the point of losing his home?

Same goes to the aspiring pick up artist. He's not very good but he works and works and works. The PUA has the same initial problem, what happened to make this guy so frightened with women?

Being persistently sucky won't solve the problem.
 

AtomicDog

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We can all learn from the homeless guys.

The only way I got my job was persistance. Every day got up early, signed up to agencies, sent lots of emails, phone every company in the white pages. Travelled to at least 10 interviews.

Then deciding which job was good enough for me -- $$$-wise and conditions-wise. Now I've laid the perfect job, and already I feel like leaving because the others are clammering for me, offering more pay!

Same with women.
 
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