"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Homecoming football game is tonight

PocketGnome

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So, I'm in the band, she's in the band. She'll be in my general area all night, but I need some help.

I asked her to h/c,(she said no) but she's still initiating conversations and stuff..... so, I want to someone bring up the homecoming dance again, without saying "Are you going to the homecoming dance?"

And, what should I say if she say's yes?

"Will you save me a dance?"

"Maybe I'll see you there?"

"Hope you have fun?"


I'm just a little unconfortable around her now, because she is still talking to me all the time and stuff, she's just in a weird mood, and it's hard to talk to her at the moment.


So, exactly how/what should I try to talk about?


Yea, I know I'm retarded, but seriously, it's really hard to talk to her since she turned me done, but acts like I'm her best friend. I'm thinking tons of kino tonight to show her I'm not interested in a friendship, but a relationship.....
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Vincent

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NEXT, she rejected you, things became weird. Plus you've entered the friends zone. Move on to someone else before your oneitis gets worse.
 

dnscache

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Maybe bring it up ONCE, if she doesn't offer anything, she's probably not interested. If she does, awesome. I say polish up those DJ skills and maybe move in at the dance. Anyone else with me on this? Otherwise, ignore her like the plague, Vincent is right on, you'll be in for a bad case of oneitis if you keep up worrying.

Good luck either way man!

-dns
 
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