"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Homecoming football game is tonight

PocketGnome

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So, I'm in the band, she's in the band. She'll be in my general area all night, but I need some help.

I asked her to h/c,(she said no) but she's still initiating conversations and stuff..... so, I want to someone bring up the homecoming dance again, without saying "Are you going to the homecoming dance?"

And, what should I say if she say's yes?

"Will you save me a dance?"

"Maybe I'll see you there?"

"Hope you have fun?"


I'm just a little unconfortable around her now, because she is still talking to me all the time and stuff, she's just in a weird mood, and it's hard to talk to her at the moment.


So, exactly how/what should I try to talk about?


Yea, I know I'm retarded, but seriously, it's really hard to talk to her since she turned me done, but acts like I'm her best friend. I'm thinking tons of kino tonight to show her I'm not interested in a friendship, but a relationship.....
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Vincent

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NEXT, she rejected you, things became weird. Plus you've entered the friends zone. Move on to someone else before your oneitis gets worse.
 

dnscache

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Maybe bring it up ONCE, if she doesn't offer anything, she's probably not interested. If she does, awesome. I say polish up those DJ skills and maybe move in at the dance. Anyone else with me on this? Otherwise, ignore her like the plague, Vincent is right on, you'll be in for a bad case of oneitis if you keep up worrying.

Good luck either way man!

-dns
 
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