"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Homecoming football game is tonight

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PocketGnome

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So, I'm in the band, she's in the band. She'll be in my general area all night, but I need some help.

I asked her to h/c,(she said no) but she's still initiating conversations and stuff..... so, I want to someone bring up the homecoming dance again, without saying "Are you going to the homecoming dance?"

And, what should I say if she say's yes?

"Will you save me a dance?"

"Maybe I'll see you there?"

"Hope you have fun?"


I'm just a little unconfortable around her now, because she is still talking to me all the time and stuff, she's just in a weird mood, and it's hard to talk to her at the moment.


So, exactly how/what should I try to talk about?


Yea, I know I'm retarded, but seriously, it's really hard to talk to her since she turned me done, but acts like I'm her best friend. I'm thinking tons of kino tonight to show her I'm not interested in a friendship, but a relationship.....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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NEXT, she rejected you, things became weird. Plus you've entered the friends zone. Move on to someone else before your oneitis gets worse.
 
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dnscache

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Maybe bring it up ONCE, if she doesn't offer anything, she's probably not interested. If she does, awesome. I say polish up those DJ skills and maybe move in at the dance. Anyone else with me on this? Otherwise, ignore her like the plague, Vincent is right on, you'll be in for a bad case of oneitis if you keep up worrying.

Good luck either way man!

-dns
 
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