"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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trent_1075

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Hello there,

This is my first time posting on this site, so bear with me.

I am a 22 yr old guy living here in the interior of Alaska. I grew up in a small town about a hundred miles south of Fairbanks (I dont expect that any of you know where that is). In this small town, everyone knew everyone, and for the most part, the women there were fun to be around, and easy to talk to.

Fast forward to last friday. I was at one of the clubs here in Fairbanks (if you can call it that), and I ran into some girls that I went to High School with. I was pretty suprised to see them, and started talking to one of the girls, who had since I had last seen her, become pretty hot. I tried to talk to one of the other girls there, who had I had always been on good terms with, and she acted like because I knew her from way back when, I was an embarrasment, and totally blew me off.

This has happend a couple times, actually, with a couple different girls that I went to school with. I wasnt trying to get anywhere with these girls, although the one was pretty cute. They were just some old friends that I was pleased to see.

Why, gentlemen, do you think that this woman was acting like this towards me? Im not a bad looking guy, and I am not otherwise creepy. It just seems to me that she was embarrased that I knew her when she had braces and no tits.

Your take on this? And how do you think I should respond next time I encounter this?

-Trent
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Jay Jay

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Girls **** test.

When they do dumb **** just call em on it.

I suggest you say exactly what you said in your wrap up, "whats up, are you embarrassed coz I remember you as a shy girl with braces and no boobs?" make sure your smile lets her know you are teasing.
 

trent_1075

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I thought about doing that earlier, but I figured I'd get a few other opinions first.

I'm done with putting up with that kind of lame stuff women do. Me putting up with it only reinforces the AFC image that I have had, and doesnt improve things at all.

Time to Man Up.

-Trent
 
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