"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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trent_1075

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Hello there,

This is my first time posting on this site, so bear with me.

I am a 22 yr old guy living here in the interior of Alaska. I grew up in a small town about a hundred miles south of Fairbanks (I dont expect that any of you know where that is). In this small town, everyone knew everyone, and for the most part, the women there were fun to be around, and easy to talk to.

Fast forward to last friday. I was at one of the clubs here in Fairbanks (if you can call it that), and I ran into some girls that I went to High School with. I was pretty suprised to see them, and started talking to one of the girls, who had since I had last seen her, become pretty hot. I tried to talk to one of the other girls there, who had I had always been on good terms with, and she acted like because I knew her from way back when, I was an embarrasment, and totally blew me off.

This has happend a couple times, actually, with a couple different girls that I went to school with. I wasnt trying to get anywhere with these girls, although the one was pretty cute. They were just some old friends that I was pleased to see.

Why, gentlemen, do you think that this woman was acting like this towards me? Im not a bad looking guy, and I am not otherwise creepy. It just seems to me that she was embarrased that I knew her when she had braces and no tits.

Your take on this? And how do you think I should respond next time I encounter this?

-Trent
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Jay Jay

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Girls **** test.

When they do dumb **** just call em on it.

I suggest you say exactly what you said in your wrap up, "whats up, are you embarrassed coz I remember you as a shy girl with braces and no boobs?" make sure your smile lets her know you are teasing.
 

trent_1075

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I thought about doing that earlier, but I figured I'd get a few other opinions first.

I'm done with putting up with that kind of lame stuff women do. Me putting up with it only reinforces the AFC image that I have had, and doesnt improve things at all.

Time to Man Up.

-Trent
 
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