I recently scaned thru Anti-Dump’s posts, he mentioned few times about getting HOME phone number.. What is the point of asking HOME number in particular, why mobile is not good enough? I mean if the girl lives with parents, should I still go for her home number…?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Home phone number.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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It doesn't really matter does it. They'll either answer the phone or they don't.
I don't talk to 'em on the phone. It's a conversation you can have face to face; phone calls are for 1) making arrangement, 2) gossip and 3) small talk, the latter two I am ultimately disinclined to engage in. True escalation is almost impossible on the phone, unless you work in tele-sales.
I don't talk to 'em on the phone. It's a conversation you can have face to face; phone calls are for 1) making arrangement, 2) gossip and 3) small talk, the latter two I am ultimately disinclined to engage in. True escalation is almost impossible on the phone, unless you work in tele-sales.
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That's old school Doc L o ve advice that pre-dated the mobile phones.
When you ask a chick her number, you usually get her mobile number by default. That's fine.
When you ask a chick her number, you usually get her mobile number by default. That's fine.
Oh, ok. Pretty much everything in this guide makes so much sense to me, it is pretty sick how many "rules" outlined there I have been following unconsiously.
"Home" phone number been bothering me big time, now it's fixed
Another question about scheduling a date on the date.. It points out that one should never schedule date on the date. I get the idea that you have to remain mystery, she has to guess about your interest level, wait for a call, that one might look needy if he asks for another date right away.
However, in my particular case, we can't really meet during regular workweek as she lives in a sh1thole so only days we can meet are Friday evening and weekend. We also have been dating for almost two month.. So being a mystery in this sense is not that easy, but I also have to agree big time that knowing when I will meet my girl exactly is pretty fvcking boring, same for her i guess. Probably I will be ending up telling her something like "my friend was planning to stop by to visit me over the weekend, dont know exact time yet. talk to you later"
P.S. My girl is coming back today from her two week long vacation. Pretty excited (deep inside obviously), will text her tomorrow probably.
"Home" phone number been bothering me big time, now it's fixed
Another question about scheduling a date on the date.. It points out that one should never schedule date on the date. I get the idea that you have to remain mystery, she has to guess about your interest level, wait for a call, that one might look needy if he asks for another date right away.
However, in my particular case, we can't really meet during regular workweek as she lives in a sh1thole so only days we can meet are Friday evening and weekend. We also have been dating for almost two month.. So being a mystery in this sense is not that easy, but I also have to agree big time that knowing when I will meet my girl exactly is pretty fvcking boring, same for her i guess. Probably I will be ending up telling her something like "my friend was planning to stop by to visit me over the weekend, dont know exact time yet. talk to you later"
P.S. My girl is coming back today from her two week long vacation. Pretty excited (deep inside obviously), will text her tomorrow probably.