I recently scaned thru Anti-Dump’s posts, he mentioned few times about getting HOME phone number.. What is the point of asking HOME number in particular, why mobile is not good enough? I mean if the girl lives with parents, should I still go for her home number…?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Home phone number.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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It doesn't really matter does it. They'll either answer the phone or they don't.
I don't talk to 'em on the phone. It's a conversation you can have face to face; phone calls are for 1) making arrangement, 2) gossip and 3) small talk, the latter two I am ultimately disinclined to engage in. True escalation is almost impossible on the phone, unless you work in tele-sales.
I don't talk to 'em on the phone. It's a conversation you can have face to face; phone calls are for 1) making arrangement, 2) gossip and 3) small talk, the latter two I am ultimately disinclined to engage in. True escalation is almost impossible on the phone, unless you work in tele-sales.
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That's old school Doc L o ve advice that pre-dated the mobile phones.
When you ask a chick her number, you usually get her mobile number by default. That's fine.
When you ask a chick her number, you usually get her mobile number by default. That's fine.
Oh, ok. Pretty much everything in this guide makes so much sense to me, it is pretty sick how many "rules" outlined there I have been following unconsiously.
"Home" phone number been bothering me big time, now it's fixed
Another question about scheduling a date on the date.. It points out that one should never schedule date on the date. I get the idea that you have to remain mystery, she has to guess about your interest level, wait for a call, that one might look needy if he asks for another date right away.
However, in my particular case, we can't really meet during regular workweek as she lives in a sh1thole so only days we can meet are Friday evening and weekend. We also have been dating for almost two month.. So being a mystery in this sense is not that easy, but I also have to agree big time that knowing when I will meet my girl exactly is pretty fvcking boring, same for her i guess. Probably I will be ending up telling her something like "my friend was planning to stop by to visit me over the weekend, dont know exact time yet. talk to you later"
P.S. My girl is coming back today from her two week long vacation. Pretty excited (deep inside obviously), will text her tomorrow probably.
"Home" phone number been bothering me big time, now it's fixed
Another question about scheduling a date on the date.. It points out that one should never schedule date on the date. I get the idea that you have to remain mystery, she has to guess about your interest level, wait for a call, that one might look needy if he asks for another date right away.
However, in my particular case, we can't really meet during regular workweek as she lives in a sh1thole so only days we can meet are Friday evening and weekend. We also have been dating for almost two month.. So being a mystery in this sense is not that easy, but I also have to agree big time that knowing when I will meet my girl exactly is pretty fvcking boring, same for her i guess. Probably I will be ending up telling her something like "my friend was planning to stop by to visit me over the weekend, dont know exact time yet. talk to you later"
P.S. My girl is coming back today from her two week long vacation. Pretty excited (deep inside obviously), will text her tomorrow probably.