"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Home gyms?

DJ_NIGGRO

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I tried looking for a local gym but things didnt work out too well.... so I'm going to just buy an elliptical trainer for the house. I checked ebay, and this is what I found:

http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=3618021515&category=15275

and

http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=3618934306&category=15275

I'm tryin to keep it pretty cheap (around $200-$250).

would these be alright?

Also, is there a good strength training machine for around that same price? I.E.

http://www.walmart.com/catalog/prod...4134&type=21&dept=4125&path=0:4125:4134:49040

^I've seen this cheaper somewhere....or


http://healthfxamerica.com/


ANY and ALL help is greatly appreciated.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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IMO home gyms are **** compared to free weights

it just feels different i guess idk

but dont fall for a lot of the gimmiks played on things like bowflex. becoming one of those ripped guys on tv takes longer than "JUST 6 WEEKS!"

i say for best results find a gym,make friends,mac it with the fit chicks there
 

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so could this olympic barbell set do the same stuff if not more than the home gym above? Is there anywhere that I can find a list/printout of exercises for those? I have one of those barbell sets but its pretty hokey and its only 150 lb. and the clips are missing.

edit: Oh I know that soy :> But going to a gym is really not going to work at this point in the game :-\
 

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I think ellipticals suck - but that's just me - I equate them with women! - not only that they are way too easy.

anyway, I think the best cardio machine BAR NONE is the Concept II Rowing Ergometer - the BEST cardio workout... not only that but the machine is virtually indestructible, needs almost zero maintenance, and has awesome resale value.... and if that wasn't all, you can fold it up so it doesn't take a ton of room.

Granted, you will have to be taught how to row properly - (it takes all of 15 minutes) but it is a serious calorie burn and will definitely build muscle (particularly your thighs and bis)

perhaps I'm a bit biased, but then again I used to be a rower.
 

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Try one of those used sports equipment resale places. You can get a weight set, bench, etc dirt cheap by buying the ones that are rusty. For some reason, the resale shops can't unload a bar with a little rust on it. Just wrap duct tape around the grips and you are good to go.
 

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I've now got a decent barbell set. thanks for that. No expensive home gym for me!

But now the cardio aspect.

Elliptical looks to be the best, since I cant go for a swim early in the morning, and the treadmill just sucks.

I also can't afford the rowing machine Diesel, sorry :-\

what about that GAZELLE thing, anyone heard good about that?
 

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sorry, I can AAA almost everytning on DDRMAX except for like Max 300, so Deep, and Exotic Ethnic. :>

I'm one of the top 5 players in Texas in DDR, but I need somehting more solid. Plus I really dont like playing DDR @ home, I like the competition and social aspect of the arcade.

a Jump rope? I have one of those, I was thinking maybe the elliptical + jump rope mebbe?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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