"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Home gyms?

DJ_NIGGRO

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I tried looking for a local gym but things didnt work out too well.... so I'm going to just buy an elliptical trainer for the house. I checked ebay, and this is what I found:

http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=3618021515&category=15275

and

http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=3618934306&category=15275

I'm tryin to keep it pretty cheap (around $200-$250).

would these be alright?

Also, is there a good strength training machine for around that same price? I.E.

http://www.walmart.com/catalog/prod...4134&type=21&dept=4125&path=0:4125:4134:49040

^I've seen this cheaper somewhere....or


http://healthfxamerica.com/


ANY and ALL help is greatly appreciated.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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IMO home gyms are **** compared to free weights

it just feels different i guess idk

but dont fall for a lot of the gimmiks played on things like bowflex. becoming one of those ripped guys on tv takes longer than "JUST 6 WEEKS!"

i say for best results find a gym,make friends,mac it with the fit chicks there
 

DJ_NIGGRO

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so could this olympic barbell set do the same stuff if not more than the home gym above? Is there anywhere that I can find a list/printout of exercises for those? I have one of those barbell sets but its pretty hokey and its only 150 lb. and the clips are missing.

edit: Oh I know that soy :> But going to a gym is really not going to work at this point in the game :-\
 

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DIESEL

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I think ellipticals suck - but that's just me - I equate them with women! - not only that they are way too easy.

anyway, I think the best cardio machine BAR NONE is the Concept II Rowing Ergometer - the BEST cardio workout... not only that but the machine is virtually indestructible, needs almost zero maintenance, and has awesome resale value.... and if that wasn't all, you can fold it up so it doesn't take a ton of room.

Granted, you will have to be taught how to row properly - (it takes all of 15 minutes) but it is a serious calorie burn and will definitely build muscle (particularly your thighs and bis)

perhaps I'm a bit biased, but then again I used to be a rower.
 

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Try one of those used sports equipment resale places. You can get a weight set, bench, etc dirt cheap by buying the ones that are rusty. For some reason, the resale shops can't unload a bar with a little rust on it. Just wrap duct tape around the grips and you are good to go.
 

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I've now got a decent barbell set. thanks for that. No expensive home gym for me!

But now the cardio aspect.

Elliptical looks to be the best, since I cant go for a swim early in the morning, and the treadmill just sucks.

I also can't afford the rowing machine Diesel, sorry :-\

what about that GAZELLE thing, anyone heard good about that?
 

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sorry, I can AAA almost everytning on DDRMAX except for like Max 300, so Deep, and Exotic Ethnic. :>

I'm one of the top 5 players in Texas in DDR, but I need somehting more solid. Plus I really dont like playing DDR @ home, I like the competition and social aspect of the arcade.

a Jump rope? I have one of those, I was thinking maybe the elliptical + jump rope mebbe?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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