“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

Home girl trying to hook me up, but the girl is a nun

R

Rint

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 26, 2005
Messages
323
Reaction score
1
Location
Florida
So my home girl was telling me how much of a good guy I am and that she really wants me to start dating her friend who is an HB8. Only problem. Her friend doesn't wanna have sex till she's married. Is there a way around this? I'm at an age where sex in a relationship is normal and I unno if I can b tied down for a year and not have sex.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

B

Brighty

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 4, 2006
Messages
643
Reaction score
38
Is she literally a nun? Odds are girls say that but if they feel strongly enough about you and you're good at foreplay you can get her to change her mind. I'd see what happens with her.
 
R

Rint

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 26, 2005
Messages
323
Reaction score
1
Location
Florida
She's not literally a nun, but I heard this guy dumped her cause she wouldn have sex with her and she dated this other guy for 3 years and nothin as well.
 
I

Igetit!

Moderator
Joined
Jul 13, 2008
Messages
2,880
Reaction score
920
Location
The United State of Texas
Rint said:
She's not literally a nun, but I heard this guy dumped her cause she wouldn have sex with her and she dated this other guy for 3 years and nothin as well.
Click to expand...
Well since you're 18,I suppose this is as good a time as any to learn this lesson...

You can't always get what you want.


It's really simple.


You want a girl you can have sex with.

This girl wants to wait until she's married to have sex.


Well? So what's the problem here? What's the confusion?


You want to have sex NOW. She wants to wait.


Clearly you two aren't compatible. Instead of you trying to change her or get her to do something she doesn't want to do,you simply need to go find a girl who wants the same thing you want,and this girl needs to find a guy who doesn't mind waiting. I mean come on,it isn't rocket science.


If you were to get with her,you'd only frustrate yourself.

I think it's dumb to try to change people.

Just go on about your business and leave her alone.


She doesn't want to be pressured into having sex,and you don't want to be pressured into being celibate.


So you go your way and find a girl who wants what you want,and she should go find a guy who wants what she wants instead of you two causing each other unnecessary stress and tension ON TOP OF the normal problems male/female relationships encounter.
 
T

Tesl

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Feb 21, 2010
Messages
281
Reaction score
16
Sounds like you aren't emotionally invested in her yet and don't know her so well, so I would advise nexting this girl before you even start. There are lots and lots of HB8s around, why waste all your time on this one?

I'm not saying it would be impossible to get her into bed, I've done it before with a "no sex before marriage" girl. It just takes that much more time/effort and it isn't really worth it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

A

Allurre

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 14, 2008
Messages
661
Reaction score
19
Tesl is right. If she strongly urges to wait until marriage, and if sex is something you highly value, start looking elsewhere. Don't waste either parties time.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top