"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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home exercises for abs

nosmirk

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are there any effective exercises that can be done at home in order to get a six-pack?

at home meaning without medicine balls or anything. just a mat
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I only ever exercise my stomach at home, just sit up's and leg raises keeping a low body fat to see the muscle, that's all you need really
 

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I am a huge fan of the exercise where you lay on your back, then pull your knees to your chest and your chest to your knees so you're balancing on your butt, and then you decline back down. Also if you have a pullup bar, you can do leg raises and these two exercises offer more resistance than crunches which will make your abs stick out further, and the sets don't take as much time to complete. They are still KILLER though.
 

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Men's Health has a FANTASTIC ab workout book that goes through diet to workouts and timing. It has excellent nutrutional insight and authoritative knowledge of muscles and proper training techniques. Really good information if you want that ripped look.
 

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bicylcles are awesome. So are V-ups. Don't slouth on form though, back completely straight, as if you were doing a deadlift or squat.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I used to have an 8-pack, from just doing crunches...

I'm working at getting it back now. When you do crunches, the key is not to do a lot of them until your abs get numb. Instead, aim to do only 12-15 reps, but you have to do them in a way that you reach failure at that point. When you move your chest up, exhale and tighten your ab muscles, but don't loosen them on the way down. Also, when you're at the peak of moving upwards, do a couple of mini-reps...as in, slightly move back down and back up, inhaling and exhaling as you do. I usually do 3 mini-reps for each rep. And move down slower than you move up. I do 3 sets of 12-15 reps.

I guarantee you'll feel the burn if done right. I don't remember where I read this, but these are apparently called "killer ups" or something like that. Don't work abs everyday...like 3 times per week is better...because the muscles need rest like any other body part.
 
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