"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Holy sh!t!!! Read this BPD chicks story!
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
5string
Master Don Juan
Can you believe this sh!t? Fvckin escort (550.00/hr) who rages on her AFC hockey boyfriend, fvcks guys all day and then comes home to fvck him and abuse him even more!Yo'Mama said:
Classic BPD.
And for you guys who don't know about this stuff, you'd better study up on it. May save your soul.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Sometimes I wonder about the "chicken and egg" thing.
Is someone with a MASSIVE ego prone to open up the floodgates of BPD behavior, or does BPD, as a mental disorder, inflate the ego?
Either way, it seems to me that one core issue is it's all about ME. BPD women are so self-obsessed that it's frightening.
My little sister has all sorts of mental problems (not BPD) and the one thing I notice is that she's completely self-absorbed. It seems to me that there are 2 things that are sure to breed madness: Self-absorption and isolation. Both of those cause one to self-destruct.
Is someone with a MASSIVE ego prone to open up the floodgates of BPD behavior, or does BPD, as a mental disorder, inflate the ego?
Either way, it seems to me that one core issue is it's all about ME. BPD women are so self-obsessed that it's frightening.
My little sister has all sorts of mental problems (not BPD) and the one thing I notice is that she's completely self-absorbed. It seems to me that there are 2 things that are sure to breed madness: Self-absorption and isolation. Both of those cause one to self-destruct.
5string
Master Don Juan
Atom
This chick has body dismorphic disorder as well. She's obsessed with her appearance. It's the only thing from which she derives any kind of self worth.
She has nothing else to offer. Thus, she's an escort.
And what a chump BF! I could never sleep with her after she got home from "work".
This chick has body dismorphic disorder as well. She's obsessed with her appearance. It's the only thing from which she derives any kind of self worth.
She has nothing else to offer. Thus, she's an escort.
And what a chump BF! I could never sleep with her after she got home from "work".
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Wow thanks for posting. I've dated some chicks who were mildly crazy, but never anything like this. How does a guy even get involved with something like this? I don't have a lot of sympathy for the dude because it seems like you could see something this nuts coming from a mile away. But then again who knows, since I've never experienced it..
sexysuave
Senior Don Juan
Wow dude, good find.
My guess is that he doesn't know what she does during the day. At least I hope not, otherwise I don't know how to explain it lol.
I mean, being an ex pro hockey player, dating some top notch lookers as she said, why would he date an escort after all that?
I don't care if she is the hottest chick in the entire UNIVERSE, if she does anyone else, even once, and I find out about it, I'd NEVER go back, no matter what!
She doesn't mention if he knows about her escort job, so I'm guessing he doesnt'. He just knows about her BPD.
My guess is that he doesn't know what she does during the day. At least I hope not, otherwise I don't know how to explain it lol.
I mean, being an ex pro hockey player, dating some top notch lookers as she said, why would he date an escort after all that?
I don't care if she is the hottest chick in the entire UNIVERSE, if she does anyone else, even once, and I find out about it, I'd NEVER go back, no matter what!
She doesn't mention if he knows about her escort job, so I'm guessing he doesnt'. He just knows about her BPD.
sexysuave
Senior Don Juan
Nevermind lol,
I'm reading the rest of the responses below, and she goes on to explain how she did tell him what she does and convinced him that she has no feelings for those guys.
Wow,, not sure what to say here, this dude is a chump, but that entire situation kinda sucks.. this is nuts
I'm reading the rest of the responses below, and she goes on to explain how she did tell him what she does and convinced him that she has no feelings for those guys.
Wow,, not sure what to say here, this dude is a chump, but that entire situation kinda sucks.. this is nuts
Man's not so AFC, simple mind-control my dear Watson.
She said he cheated on her in their first year, which worsened the trust...
Then he, being "in love" with this girl (I assume from dating her for 3 years) mustve experienced a great amount of guilt since she found out. She probably manipulated and played on this emotion so it manifested itself into AFC-ish "love" (there is such thing as healthy love) so he became submissive and was willing to take her **** to stay with her.
2 years of reinforcement of this and he is on the tips of her fingers, a marionette I believe the puppet is called in some cases, and yeah.
No need to hate on the women for having a ****ed up past, everyone has problems so don't judge until you've been there.
Peace out.
She said he cheated on her in their first year, which worsened the trust...
Then he, being "in love" with this girl (I assume from dating her for 3 years) mustve experienced a great amount of guilt since she found out. She probably manipulated and played on this emotion so it manifested itself into AFC-ish "love" (there is such thing as healthy love) so he became submissive and was willing to take her **** to stay with her.
2 years of reinforcement of this and he is on the tips of her fingers, a marionette I believe the puppet is called in some cases, and yeah.
No need to hate on the women for having a ****ed up past, everyone has problems so don't judge until you've been there.
Peace out.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
A perfect example of two people who revile themselves and will therefore create all sorts of mental contrivances to numb the pain.
A mentally unstable woman can do that to a man... The good times are so good that he will overlook the horror that lurks underneath. She is his drug, and he can't get out.
A mentally unstable woman can do that to a man... The good times are so good that he will overlook the horror that lurks underneath. She is his drug, and he can't get out.
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
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I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
5string
Master Don Juan
True Atom.Atom Smasher said:
This woman should not be in a relationship, period! She's goofier than a sh!t house rat. Further, she's fvcking up hockey boy bigtime. My Gawd! How can this guy have sex with her when she come home after a hard day at work. He's just as fvcked up as she is! He must have been checked into the boards too much and had one too many concussions!
I just don't understand that he knows she's been railed that day by five fat real estate agents and then have sex with her! Jeezus!