"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Holy Crap...

Clownboy

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There's this girl that I work with every now and then who I was interested in a coule of years ago. Back then we would make a date, then she would stand me up. I did the whole AFC thing by calling her pager over and over and all that crap. It was actually because of her that I found this site. Anyways, I lost all interest in her but we are still good friends. Recently she got a job as a dancer at a strip joint. Now here in VA you can't go naked, but you can go pretty darn close. So I see her tonight at an employee meeting. We were chatting and all. I asked her how the job was going and she told me me it was going great and that I should come on out and see her. Now there were a couple of possible things I could have said such as, "Okay, that would be great," or, "Boobie bars just isn't my scene," but the one that suddenly popped into my head (and the one I used was this): "Why should I go there when you could just come back to my place and dance for me for free?" Long story short: we wound up back at her place instead. Why? That's where all her costumes were and she was more than happy to model them for me. I wouldn't have had the cojones a few years ago to try that line. And I probably still wouldn't if I hadn't discovered this siite. Thanks guys.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You have to be direct and bold with these kind of women - take charge! That was a good line. I would have said something like that if I enjoyed the company of stripper hos!! :)
 

Tango-Kid

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Squirrels, yea that´s what we all are looking forward to hear :D

Anyways, that´s some good progress!
 
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