"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Holy Crap...

Clownboy

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There's this girl that I work with every now and then who I was interested in a coule of years ago. Back then we would make a date, then she would stand me up. I did the whole AFC thing by calling her pager over and over and all that crap. It was actually because of her that I found this site. Anyways, I lost all interest in her but we are still good friends. Recently she got a job as a dancer at a strip joint. Now here in VA you can't go naked, but you can go pretty darn close. So I see her tonight at an employee meeting. We were chatting and all. I asked her how the job was going and she told me me it was going great and that I should come on out and see her. Now there were a couple of possible things I could have said such as, "Okay, that would be great," or, "Boobie bars just isn't my scene," but the one that suddenly popped into my head (and the one I used was this): "Why should I go there when you could just come back to my place and dance for me for free?" Long story short: we wound up back at her place instead. Why? That's where all her costumes were and she was more than happy to model them for me. I wouldn't have had the cojones a few years ago to try that line. And I probably still wouldn't if I hadn't discovered this siite. Thanks guys.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You have to be direct and bold with these kind of women - take charge! That was a good line. I would have said something like that if I enjoyed the company of stripper hos!! :)
 

Tango-Kid

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Squirrels, yea that´s what we all are looking forward to hear :D

Anyways, that´s some good progress!
 
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