"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Holy crap, women are lying/devious scumbags at times.

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and by at times, I mean some are just really freaking bad, I just had a hilarious experience with one, after calling her out on something she did she immediately turned around and accused me of being childish and immature.

Well, she's off of my list, no one treats me with that much disrespect, but her attitude was downright foul and rotten, very unladylike.
"You have trust issues etc etc"
Oh, I have trust issues for pointing out something that was very obviously true? Jeez.

End of rant.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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All they are is emotional. Not an ounce of logic. They want YOU to make all the decisions. They can't. If you wanna push a woman you do not like away, just complain to them about your "problems." Heck, even if your Mom hears her son complain, she'll hate him for it, deep down inside. Show weakness and a woman will run for the hills. They want Strong 1st, then "they think they want" "sensitive" man 2nd. They always need strength first though, so fvck sensitivity. You should've lit into her. When in doubt, Light the Fvck in to women, without explanation, make em fvckin cry. Sure there'll be white knights to try n' come and kick yo as5 if you yell at em, make em cry, but you gotta show strength and if that means whippin a mvtherfvcker's as5 for tryin to whip your as5 for yelling at some random b!tch (not your wife, not your girlfriend) then so be it, be strong and beat the fvcker for coming after you over a hoe. Strong first, MAYbe sensitive second on down the line, but definitely way after you've already fvcked her 8 or 9 times.
 

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BeginningDJ said:
I thought the Newports flew out of her purse, kinda like Halo 2.

:up: :crackup:

"that's that flatbush sh!t!"

"biyaches get your act together...niggas out here is snuffing everything!"
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A chick told me she couldnt get together because she had classwork to do, but she wanted to reschedule. We finally got together a week or so later.

Hb: sorry i couldnt make it the first time you asked me out, i was so sick!
Me: i thought you said you had work to do
Hb: oh umm
Me: ha. Liar

she apologized about 10 times, but after that sh1t i never called her again.
 
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