"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Holy -blam!- I figured it out!

Yoko Kurama

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I know why I am always tripping over my self when I talk to women. I think TOO much. Even when I am not around them I shouldn't think about em'! Because if I do think about them beforehand when I am talking to them I tend to think about what I was thinking about beforehand which distracts me and cause me to THINK and ACT in stupid ways! I am following my instincts when it comes to women, from here on out. Pure, instant, non-contemplated reactions.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yoko Kurama said:
I know why I am always tripping over my self when I talk to women. I think TOO much. Even when I am not around them I shouldn't think about em'! Because if I do think about them beforehand when I am talking to them I tend to think about what I was thinking about beforehand which distracts me and cause me to THINK and ACT in stupid ways! I am following my instincts when it comes to women, from here on out. Pure, instant, non-contemplated reactions.
Good on you. :up:

Rest of you guys that think too much should listen to this guy. Don't think (too much) about what your going to do, just do it. Some of my highest moments of my DJ career was when I was so pumped I didn't care what was coming out of my mouth, I just said whatever came to my mind right away and it UPed my game ALOT!

Don't think too much, just act. Or else you'll psyche yourself out.
 

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exactly
 

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Agreed. My most AFC moments usually come/used to come when I'd plan a conversation or situation beforehand; then when soemthing changes I'd be too busy figuring out what I was supposed to do next then I'd start kinda panicing or getting anxious.

In other words, you're right.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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your 1000% correct. its my main problem too, and i still have trouble dealing with it sometimes. but im gettin better at it. good job uve realized, u dont kno how hard that step is for most ppl.
 
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