"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Holy Baggage Batman!

RSanders219

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Wow is all I can say for this situation I got myself into haha.. This girl I had met at a bar gave me her number. I hit her up a few days later, we just talked and she texted me all the time for the first two weeks we hungout.

Then these past 2 weeks she's acted sort of distant, decreasing IL, and all that. I thought I had fvcked something up big time so I decided to try to move on as much as I had oneitis I went NC for a few days.

These few days pass and she contacts me a few times asking why we had never hungout the past weekend. I plainly told her I was busy.. Nothing else, then she texts me a day later about something strange. So I said to her

"You seem different lately, is something on your mind?"

She told me she had a terrible past and all this.. Long story short, she has a fiance currently in prison for 5 years. MY JAW FVCKING DROPPED! wow. I'm staying away from the bar trash and sticking to the libraries for now on. I think that was enough to kill the oneitis lol.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hoes these days, SMH
 

RSanders219

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vatoloco said:
"Run Forrest, RUN!"
Haha tell me about it, I told her that I felt it was best that we stop talking and said she should delete my number. I feel bad for her fiancee, that girl gives terrible BJs.
 

terran2k

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yeah man, you never know what kinda crazy past a chic has, she could be a liar, a cheat, a murderer... all with a pretty face.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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