"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Holy Baggage Batman!

RSanders219

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Wow is all I can say for this situation I got myself into haha.. This girl I had met at a bar gave me her number. I hit her up a few days later, we just talked and she texted me all the time for the first two weeks we hungout.

Then these past 2 weeks she's acted sort of distant, decreasing IL, and all that. I thought I had fvcked something up big time so I decided to try to move on as much as I had oneitis I went NC for a few days.

These few days pass and she contacts me a few times asking why we had never hungout the past weekend. I plainly told her I was busy.. Nothing else, then she texts me a day later about something strange. So I said to her

"You seem different lately, is something on your mind?"

She told me she had a terrible past and all this.. Long story short, she has a fiance currently in prison for 5 years. MY JAW FVCKING DROPPED! wow. I'm staying away from the bar trash and sticking to the libraries for now on. I think that was enough to kill the oneitis lol.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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Hoes these days, SMH
 

RSanders219

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vatoloco said:
"Run Forrest, RUN!"
Haha tell me about it, I told her that I felt it was best that we stop talking and said she should delete my number. I feel bad for her fiancee, that girl gives terrible BJs.
 

terran2k

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yeah man, you never know what kinda crazy past a chic has, she could be a liar, a cheat, a murderer... all with a pretty face.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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