"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Holla back NYC!!!
- Thread starter killerasp
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
ASav
Don Juan
Wonder if there are any around here?
Here's a link to a party Saturday night http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=35369
I know you can't make killerasp. Hope you do well in school this semester. What are you studying?
studying IT at syracuse university. I might actually come down to that Remote Lounge. I heard about it awhile back. How is it atmosphere there? BTW, how in hell did you get a private party going on there? You must have pulled some strings to get that kind of thing going.
ASav
Don Juan
I'll tell you the next time I see you. Or that's what I would say if you were female! j/k It was fairly simple. Its easier to manage a guest list with the internet. I use www.evite.com , regular emails and online discussion forums like this one to communicate. This party has gotten only a fair response. I think 25 people will show. Some guys are cool some guys are AFCs some are trying to get from one to the other. Either way its as much fun as you make it. Just rambling on....
You can give me a call at 718-564-0003 if something goes wrong tomorrow. Although it shouldn't
When you come back from school we should be able to do something.
I'm out Peace
HAHAHA. Its called the blackout 2003. did you have something to do with it? ill try to make it. i had to walk from 42nd street back to my house in brooklyn. thats about 5-6 hr walk. did i mention i walked in FLIP FLOPS!!! the power just came back on an hr. im barely able to walk on my feet cus they are blistered beyond imagination. right now im staying off my feet.Originally posted by ASav
You can give me a call at 718-564-0003 if something goes wrong tomorrow. Although it shouldn't
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
ASav
Don Juan
SH[T! That sucks! I took the ferry from Pier 11 to Queens which I normally do to get to work anyway but Thursday it was mobbed beyond chaos. If you can make it out tonight, I'll probably be wearing a green button down shirt and light tan/stone colored pants. One of my friends walked from Canal St. to Astoria over the queensboro bridge! Oh, for those feet, go get an asian massage with "happy ending"