"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Holla back NYC!!!
- Thread starter killerasp
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
ASav
Don Juan
Wonder if there are any around here?
Here's a link to a party Saturday night http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=35369
I know you can't make killerasp. Hope you do well in school this semester. What are you studying?
studying IT at syracuse university. I might actually come down to that Remote Lounge. I heard about it awhile back. How is it atmosphere there? BTW, how in hell did you get a private party going on there? You must have pulled some strings to get that kind of thing going.
ASav
Don Juan
I'll tell you the next time I see you. Or that's what I would say if you were female! j/k It was fairly simple. Its easier to manage a guest list with the internet. I use www.evite.com , regular emails and online discussion forums like this one to communicate. This party has gotten only a fair response. I think 25 people will show. Some guys are cool some guys are AFCs some are trying to get from one to the other. Either way its as much fun as you make it. Just rambling on....
You can give me a call at 718-564-0003 if something goes wrong tomorrow. Although it shouldn't
When you come back from school we should be able to do something.
I'm out Peace
HAHAHA. Its called the blackout 2003. did you have something to do with it? ill try to make it. i had to walk from 42nd street back to my house in brooklyn. thats about 5-6 hr walk. did i mention i walked in FLIP FLOPS!!! the power just came back on an hr. im barely able to walk on my feet cus they are blistered beyond imagination. right now im staying off my feet.Originally posted by ASav
You can give me a call at 718-564-0003 if something goes wrong tomorrow. Although it shouldn't
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
ASav
Don Juan
SH[T! That sucks! I took the ferry from Pier 11 to Queens which I normally do to get to work anyway but Thursday it was mobbed beyond chaos. If you can make it out tonight, I'll probably be wearing a green button down shirt and light tan/stone colored pants. One of my friends walked from Canal St. to Astoria over the queensboro bridge! Oh, for those feet, go get an asian massage with "happy ending"