“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Rainman4707

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My friend has booked a holiday with his girlfriend for August. He's only known her a year.

What happens if he breaks up with her before the holiday. I wouldn't book a holiday that far off!

One girl I know called me silly, for thinking this way.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Well as long as he can get his money back if sh!t hits the fan, I don't see what is the problem
 

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Not necessarily dumb. Lots of factors you left out. Did he pay for it all himself? Can he get his money back? Could he have booked it later? How expensive was it? How much money does he make? How well have your friend and his GF been getting along? How easily can he bring a friend in her spot?
 

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I've always booked my holidays with my ex knowing that even if sh!t would hit the fan I would go with or without her anyway. I always took accomodations I could have canceled a few days before. So basicaly, we would have spend a few hours in the plane together and then I would have been going my own way.
 

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I think you can get your money back if you cancel.
Personally I would book it a couple month before we went, saves all the bulls*it of cancelling.

I think they are getting on well & he can afford it.
 

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Spent some memorable moments with your girlfriend in holiday time. They will really understand you and gives you the appropriate path to live the life.
 

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Spent some memorable moments with your girlfriend in holiday time. They will really understand you and gives you the appropriate path to live the life.
Yes, it's also a great tester for the relationship. If you haven't ripped each other heads off by the end of the holiday, you're good.
 
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