Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Holiday season = Slump Season

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Holiday season = Slump Season..

Well since i am perpetually single and having 2 week flings with other peoples girlfriends who are still hoing around, I have found that without fail when the holidays come around these slutty women insist on spending more time with their boyfriends and acting as though they have been faithful all year. I guess this is so they can cash in to the fullest on the potential money their boyfriend could spend.

So looks like its lonely player time for me.. :eek: :eek: :eek:

So many women are cheating now that i dont see any logical reason to get a girlfriend... If i really liked a woman i would not want to share her with the whole damn city but in most cases now you have no choice.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DonGorgon said:
Holiday season = Slump Season..

Well since i am perpetually single and having 2 week flings with other peoples girlfriends who are still hoing around, I have found that without fail when the holidays come around these slutty women insist on spending more time with their boyfriends and acting as though they have been faithful all year. I guess this is so they can cash in to the fullest on the potential money their boyfriend could spend.

So looks like its lonely player time for me.. :eek: :eek: :eek:

So many women are cheating now that i dont see any logical reason to get a girlfriend... If i really lied a woman i would not want to share her with the whole damn city but in most cases now you have no choice.
I have noticed the last year or so to have holiday slumps for me. Maybe I'm just in a slump and not about the holidays but I don't think so because I've noticed right around every holiday the girls I meet seem to just be more standoffish and less willing to hook up.
 

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ketostix said:
I have noticed the last year or so to have holiday slumps for me. Maybe I'm just in a slump and not about the holidays but I don't think so because I've noticed right around every holiday the girls I meet seem to just be more standoffish and less willing to hook up.
yup .. it would be cool if other single player types could chime in on this and offer some solutions they may have... cause it does get very lonely round this time of year.. Even single women are more standoffish cause they dont wanna spend special emotionally holiday time with a random guy they have no real bond with so they opt to be alone too...LOL
 

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DonGorgon said:
Holiday season = Slump Season..

Well since i am perpetually single and having 2 week flings with other peoples girlfriends who are still hoing around, I have found that without fail when the holidays come around these slutty women insist on spending more time with their boyfriends and acting as though they have been faithful all year. I guess this is so they can cash in to the fullest on the potential money their boyfriend could spend.

So looks like its lonely player time for me.. :eek: :eek: :eek:

So many women are cheating now that i dont see any logical reason to get a girlfriend... If i really lied a woman i would not want to share her with the whole damn city but in most cases now you have no choice.
I'm not gonna lie
Usually winter for me has been brutual in the past, and I've gone thru some lame streaks myself. However this Winter it's not so, I got a couple plates that I'm spinning and a few prospects @ any giving time right now. Why? cause I'm out on the field, before I would do nothing and go online(myspace pimpin lol) but now with the knowledge I have amassed, I can just go out and have fun, and meet some new women
ho ho hoooo

marry xmas
 

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Solomon said:
I'm not gonna lie
Usually winter for me has been brutual in the past, and I've gone thru some lame streaks myself. However this Winter it's not so, I got a couple plates that I'm spinning and a few prospects @ any giving time right now. Why? cause I'm out on the field, before I would do nothing and go online(myspace pimpin lol) but now with the knowledge I have amassed, I can just go out and have fun, and meet some new women
ho ho hoooo

marry xmas

Glad ur doin ok dude.. i go out every weekend but recently women are not as open to the random guy (me) since their boyfriend might buy them a new ipod touch fro exmas if she keeps him happy. lol
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DonGorgon said:
Glad ur doin ok dude.. i go out every weekend but recently women are not as open to the random guy (me) since their boyfriend might buy them a new ipod touch fro exmas if she keeps him happy. lol

lol @ that

I feel you bro, if you can make those girls with boyfriends "Feel good" even just for the night then its all good, when I approach now a days, I don't even asks them if they have boyfriends, that irrlevleant to me, it's not important, why? because if she is single she will let you know....

Sadly a lof of guys who I talk too on the field(fellow Fieldsoliders), say that it's easier to bone a girl who has a boyfriend or married. I haven't boned a married women yet (to my knowledge) and I hope not too. But it's disheartning when you hear of these "cheating" stories.
 

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ketostix said:
I have noticed the last year or so to have holiday slumps for me. Maybe I'm just in a slump and not about the holidays but I don't think so because I've noticed right around every holiday the girls I meet seem to just be more standoffish and less willing to hook up.
Interesting. As a matter of fact, I just number closed a chick who worked at a restaurant. I asked if she has any plans for the Christmas and she said no. So I immediately, "Alright, let's do something, give me your number!"

I guess you should start looking for single women! :D
 

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When I travel home for the holidays (over 1000 miles) I had been able to, up until this year, count on hooking up with an ex from high school like clockwork. I have been talking to another girl who I was friends with in the past about hanging out again, we went out and saw a movie over thanksgiving.

I think using social circles to reconnect with old contacts and meet new people at christmas parties and stuff is your best bet... unlees you're going on vacation during the holiday season to someplace tropical !
 

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I don't know about you guys, but I f-closed 1 chick this weekend and got 3 number closes. :up:
 

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Now everyone anywhere in the world who got an f-close around the holidays or even a number-close is going to tell us we're full of it. What can I say? Lately I and wings (not just me) have been seeing around my locale what DonGorgon is seeing with women being more standoffish and less open to hooking up around the holidays. I remember in the past, holidays being better (shrug).
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Down here the weather is nice & sunny during the holiday season. For me, it's the best time of year to get actions. :D Last year business was terrific. This year I'm in a relationship (early phase) and it's been friggin' awesome too.
 

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Jitterbug said:
Down here the weather is nice & sunny during the holiday season. For me, it's the best time of year to get actions. :D Last year business was terrific. This year I'm in a relationship (early phase) and it's been friggin' awesome too.
We are happy for you dude.
 

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It can be hard because a lot of people (especially at stores) are trying to spend a lot of time with people they are close to (or "supposedly close to ;) )
 

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lots of people coming home to visit...lots of people out in bars and clubs and resturants in my area. I think its a good time to hunt.
 

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lots of people coming home to visit...lots of people out in bars and clubs and resturants in my area. I think its a good time to hunt.

Yeh im hunting this week..

last night, girl i met last weekend said she is with her man so she cant see me....lol when i met her she was all over me in the club.. oh well
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DonGorgon said:
I have found that without fail when the holidays come around these slutty women insist on spending more time with their boyfriends and acting as though they have been faithful all year. I guess this is so they can cash in to the fullest on the potential money their boyfriend could spend.

So looks like its lonely player time for me.. :eek: :eek: :eek:

Aren't you glad that you are not one of those boyfriends? Being alone is much better than that. If you need companionship so much, get a dog.

And in regard to the holidays, New Year's Eve is coming, which is right up there with Halloween as the biggest ho-fest of the year.
 

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Aren't you glad that you are not one of those boyfriends? Being alone is much better than that. If you need companionship so much, get a dog.

And in regard to the holidays, New Year's Eve is coming, which is right up there with Halloween as the biggest ho-fest of the year.
I dont see how any dudes can be in relationships with this batch of sluts we have parading as women...

On mans ho is another mans house wife

LOL... yeh you are right but single life does get lonely... and yes many women will be dumping their boyfriends in time for the new years eve ho fest...LOL
 

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I dont see how any dudes can be in relationships with this batch of sluts we have parading as women...

On mans ho is another mans house wife

LOL... yeh you are right but single life does get lonely... and yes many women will be dumping their boyfriends in time for the new years eve ho fest...LOL

Hence I'm getting my wife to be from Africa Eddie Murphy Style

lol

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