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Holiday season = Slump Season

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Holiday season = Slump Season..

Well since i am perpetually single and having 2 week flings with other peoples girlfriends who are still hoing around, I have found that without fail when the holidays come around these slutty women insist on spending more time with their boyfriends and acting as though they have been faithful all year. I guess this is so they can cash in to the fullest on the potential money their boyfriend could spend.

So looks like its lonely player time for me.. :eek: :eek: :eek:

So many women are cheating now that i dont see any logical reason to get a girlfriend... If i really liked a woman i would not want to share her with the whole damn city but in most cases now you have no choice.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DonGorgon said:
Holiday season = Slump Season..

Well since i am perpetually single and having 2 week flings with other peoples girlfriends who are still hoing around, I have found that without fail when the holidays come around these slutty women insist on spending more time with their boyfriends and acting as though they have been faithful all year. I guess this is so they can cash in to the fullest on the potential money their boyfriend could spend.

So looks like its lonely player time for me.. :eek: :eek: :eek:

So many women are cheating now that i dont see any logical reason to get a girlfriend... If i really lied a woman i would not want to share her with the whole damn city but in most cases now you have no choice.
I have noticed the last year or so to have holiday slumps for me. Maybe I'm just in a slump and not about the holidays but I don't think so because I've noticed right around every holiday the girls I meet seem to just be more standoffish and less willing to hook up.
 

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ketostix said:
I have noticed the last year or so to have holiday slumps for me. Maybe I'm just in a slump and not about the holidays but I don't think so because I've noticed right around every holiday the girls I meet seem to just be more standoffish and less willing to hook up.
yup .. it would be cool if other single player types could chime in on this and offer some solutions they may have... cause it does get very lonely round this time of year.. Even single women are more standoffish cause they dont wanna spend special emotionally holiday time with a random guy they have no real bond with so they opt to be alone too...LOL
 

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DonGorgon said:
Holiday season = Slump Season..

Well since i am perpetually single and having 2 week flings with other peoples girlfriends who are still hoing around, I have found that without fail when the holidays come around these slutty women insist on spending more time with their boyfriends and acting as though they have been faithful all year. I guess this is so they can cash in to the fullest on the potential money their boyfriend could spend.

So looks like its lonely player time for me.. :eek: :eek: :eek:

So many women are cheating now that i dont see any logical reason to get a girlfriend... If i really lied a woman i would not want to share her with the whole damn city but in most cases now you have no choice.
I'm not gonna lie
Usually winter for me has been brutual in the past, and I've gone thru some lame streaks myself. However this Winter it's not so, I got a couple plates that I'm spinning and a few prospects @ any giving time right now. Why? cause I'm out on the field, before I would do nothing and go online(myspace pimpin lol) but now with the knowledge I have amassed, I can just go out and have fun, and meet some new women
ho ho hoooo

marry xmas
 

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I'm not gonna lie
Usually winter for me has been brutual in the past, and I've gone thru some lame streaks myself. However this Winter it's not so, I got a couple plates that I'm spinning and a few prospects @ any giving time right now. Why? cause I'm out on the field, before I would do nothing and go online(myspace pimpin lol) but now with the knowledge I have amassed, I can just go out and have fun, and meet some new women
ho ho hoooo

marry xmas

Glad ur doin ok dude.. i go out every weekend but recently women are not as open to the random guy (me) since their boyfriend might buy them a new ipod touch fro exmas if she keeps him happy. lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DonGorgon said:
Glad ur doin ok dude.. i go out every weekend but recently women are not as open to the random guy (me) since their boyfriend might buy them a new ipod touch fro exmas if she keeps him happy. lol

lol @ that

I feel you bro, if you can make those girls with boyfriends "Feel good" even just for the night then its all good, when I approach now a days, I don't even asks them if they have boyfriends, that irrlevleant to me, it's not important, why? because if she is single she will let you know....

Sadly a lof of guys who I talk too on the field(fellow Fieldsoliders), say that it's easier to bone a girl who has a boyfriend or married. I haven't boned a married women yet (to my knowledge) and I hope not too. But it's disheartning when you hear of these "cheating" stories.
 

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ketostix said:
I have noticed the last year or so to have holiday slumps for me. Maybe I'm just in a slump and not about the holidays but I don't think so because I've noticed right around every holiday the girls I meet seem to just be more standoffish and less willing to hook up.
Interesting. As a matter of fact, I just number closed a chick who worked at a restaurant. I asked if she has any plans for the Christmas and she said no. So I immediately, "Alright, let's do something, give me your number!"

I guess you should start looking for single women! :D
 

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When I travel home for the holidays (over 1000 miles) I had been able to, up until this year, count on hooking up with an ex from high school like clockwork. I have been talking to another girl who I was friends with in the past about hanging out again, we went out and saw a movie over thanksgiving.

I think using social circles to reconnect with old contacts and meet new people at christmas parties and stuff is your best bet... unlees you're going on vacation during the holiday season to someplace tropical !
 

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I don't know about you guys, but I f-closed 1 chick this weekend and got 3 number closes. :up:
 

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Now everyone anywhere in the world who got an f-close around the holidays or even a number-close is going to tell us we're full of it. What can I say? Lately I and wings (not just me) have been seeing around my locale what DonGorgon is seeing with women being more standoffish and less open to hooking up around the holidays. I remember in the past, holidays being better (shrug).
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Down here the weather is nice & sunny during the holiday season. For me, it's the best time of year to get actions. :D Last year business was terrific. This year I'm in a relationship (early phase) and it's been friggin' awesome too.
 

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Down here the weather is nice & sunny during the holiday season. For me, it's the best time of year to get actions. :D Last year business was terrific. This year I'm in a relationship (early phase) and it's been friggin' awesome too.
We are happy for you dude.
 

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It can be hard because a lot of people (especially at stores) are trying to spend a lot of time with people they are close to (or "supposedly close to ;) )
 

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lots of people coming home to visit...lots of people out in bars and clubs and resturants in my area. I think its a good time to hunt.
 

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lots of people coming home to visit...lots of people out in bars and clubs and resturants in my area. I think its a good time to hunt.

Yeh im hunting this week..

last night, girl i met last weekend said she is with her man so she cant see me....lol when i met her she was all over me in the club.. oh well
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DonGorgon said:
I have found that without fail when the holidays come around these slutty women insist on spending more time with their boyfriends and acting as though they have been faithful all year. I guess this is so they can cash in to the fullest on the potential money their boyfriend could spend.

So looks like its lonely player time for me.. :eek: :eek: :eek:

Aren't you glad that you are not one of those boyfriends? Being alone is much better than that. If you need companionship so much, get a dog.

And in regard to the holidays, New Year's Eve is coming, which is right up there with Halloween as the biggest ho-fest of the year.
 

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Aren't you glad that you are not one of those boyfriends? Being alone is much better than that. If you need companionship so much, get a dog.

And in regard to the holidays, New Year's Eve is coming, which is right up there with Halloween as the biggest ho-fest of the year.
I dont see how any dudes can be in relationships with this batch of sluts we have parading as women...

On mans ho is another mans house wife

LOL... yeh you are right but single life does get lonely... and yes many women will be dumping their boyfriends in time for the new years eve ho fest...LOL
 

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I dont see how any dudes can be in relationships with this batch of sluts we have parading as women...

On mans ho is another mans house wife

LOL... yeh you are right but single life does get lonely... and yes many women will be dumping their boyfriends in time for the new years eve ho fest...LOL

Hence I'm getting my wife to be from Africa Eddie Murphy Style

lol

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