Holiday Rekindle?

[SargeMaximus]

Kind of vague. Just wait until she replies. If she never does, text her again on her birthday.

I don’t know her birthday

 

[EyeBRollin]

I don’t know her birthday

Then wait until next year. Only way exes are open to rekindling is when the timing lines up. They’ll hit you up when that happens.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Then wait until next year. Only way exes are open to rekindling is when the timing lines up. They’ll hit you up when that happens.

Problem is: she has some of my books and I kinda want them back :/

 

[EyeBRollin]

Problem is: she has some of my books and I kinda want them back :/

They’re gone. Sunk cost. Hit her up next year if she doesn’t write back.

 

[SargeMaximus]

They’re gone. Sunk cost. Hit her up next year if she doesn’t write back.

That’s so ****ty

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Well I made my attempt. Her initial reply seemed promising but it’s been a few hours since I asked her when she’s free next and no reply. So I guess that’s that. Pic below

Too soon in the Convo for that. Sometimes you have to massage a Convo for a little longer before going for the kill.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Too soon in the Convo for that. Sometimes you have to massage a Convo for a little longer before going for the kill.

Yeah I figured. I just want my books back at this point tbh

 

[jaymbrs]

These hos are already ahead of you.

 

[SargeMaximus]

These hos are already ahead of you.

Sad that it’s framed as a bad thing

 

[Divorced w 3]

Well I made my attempt. Her initial reply seemed promising but it’s been a few hours since I asked her when she’s free next and no reply. So I guess that’s that. Pic below

Imo, with those lips you had a small crack in the door to get her juices going. Something to the effect of, “well, I was baking gingerbread cookies until those lips showed up on my text”

 

[Divorced w 3]

These hos are already ahead of you.

That’s an interesting spin. Maybe then we start coming in with “I’d wish you a merry Christmas but you’d think I’m trying to get back in your pants,” and, or add on - “ so have a healthy and happy 2023”…?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

You should have asked if she was on the naughty or nice list and then something about Santa sliding down her chimney and stuffing her stocking

 

[Divorced w 3]

You should have asked if she was on the naughty or nice list and then something about Santa sliding down her chimney and stuffing her stocking

Omg I had that same thought the other day. My college ONS actually texted me back the other day - Nike had blow out earnings and I shot a photo from cnbc and sent it to her and was like did you go on a shopping spree and was like hey I have a question got a second ( I was smashing her in nothing but my Nike sweatshirt and white socks) and then she was doing family stuff with the stockings last week, such a missed opportunity

 

[SargeMaximus]

You should have asked if she was on the naughty or nice list and then something about Santa sliding down her chimney and stuffing her stocking

I don’t have the wit you guys do. Wouldn’t be natural anyhow

 

[Divorced w 3]

I don’t have the wit you guys do. Wouldn’t be natural anyhow

That’s a tough one. I have been breaking balls and had mine broken so much it’s a second language. Have you ever played sports or been in any sort of competitive, locker room environment? C0cky funny is just the seduction worlds way of trying to put a label on either being a confident jock and / or growing up in a harder than average environment (think, metro New York , Boston, Chicago, etc ). Whatever you’re good at, go immediately into that crowd and just start talking **** would be my suggestion. Talk so much **** someone tries to start a fight with you. Not online, real life. Even if it’s chess or art or even academia. Tell them with a smile but confidently. And then be like bro lighten up it’s just words take it out on the field (or whatever the relevant medium )

example: you’re in art class. Some guy is sitting there with his art and he looks like he’s got this attitude that he rocked it and he wants everyone to know it. “Bro is that your art ?” Guy appreciate you notice and smiles confidently “Yes I didn’t really try but I appreciate your asking “. ‘No it’s trash bro’… that guy is gonna be like wtf this is art class that doesn’t happen here , meanwhile the broad he’s trying to impress drops a gallon on her panties literally right in front of you

 

[SargeMaximus]

That’s a tough one. I have been breaking balls and had mine broken so much it’s a second language. Have you ever played sports or been in any sort of competitive, locker room environment? C0cky funny is just the seduction worlds way of trying to put a label on either being a confident jock and / or growing up in a harder than average environment (think, metro New York , Boston, Chicago, etc ). Whatever you’re good at, go immediately into that crowd and just start talking **** would be my suggestion. Talk so much **** someone tries to start a fight with you. Not online, real life. Even if it’s chess or art or even academia. Tell them with a smile but confidently. And then be like bro lighten up it’s just words take it out on the field (or whatever the relevant medium )

example: you’re in art class. Some guy is sitting there with his art and he looks like he’s got this attitude that he rocked it and he wants everyone to know it. “Bro is that your art ?” Guy appreciate you notice and smiles confidently “Yes I didn’t really try but I appreciate your asking “. ‘No it’s trash bro’

No I have not and I don’t like the ball busting.

and I don’t want to be disingenuous. I’d rather lose a girl than change who I am at the core. At this point, I just want my books back. If she wants to steal them that’s not cool

 

[Divorced w 3]

No I have not and I don’t like the ball busting.

and I don’t want to be disingenuous. I’d rather lose a girl than change who I am at the core. At this point, I just want my books back. If she wants to steal them that’s not cool

Explain briefly the situation surrounding the way she got the books and why she still has them. Also please describe the books themselves and their importance/ value.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Explain briefly the situation surrounding the way she got the books and why she still has them. Also please describe the books themselves and their importance/ value.

The first time she came over and we had sex, we got to talking about my book that I wrote. She was curious so I showed her my copy. Then we talked about other stuff including sexual kinks, so I lent her my copy of Nancy Friday’s “My Secret Garden”. The importance is they are my property and I want them back

 

[Divorced w 3]

The first time she came over and we had sex, we got to talking about my book that I wrote. She was curious so I showed her my copy. Then we talked about other stuff including sexual kinks, so I lent her my copy of Nancy Friday’s “My Secret Garden”. The importance is they are my property and I want them back

This is easy. If she’s got your literal intellectual property you should simply tell her you need your book back. Throw on that you’d like the other one back.

to be honest this was your way in imo. You go in legitimate, you take the temperature and then go from there. I don’t think it made sense to beat around the bush, or is your book not that important to you?

could you see where she’s seeing you as lower value that you’re playing head games not just asking for your intellectual property back?

 

[SargeMaximus]

This is easy. If she’s got your literal intellectual property you should simply tell her you need your book back. Throw on that you’d like the other one back.

yes I was thinking of a text something like “Oh btw I’d like those books back soon”is that ok?