old_skoolr
Master Don Juan
hey guys am going to be in the greek islands partying it up for a few weeks. Heard some crazy things but would like to know if you guys have any advice or have been there before...am absolutely pumped to go!!!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Holiday Advice
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Mr Wright
Master Don Juan
Yeah, I've been to those sort of places. Fast escalation is king there. Everyone is drunk, having a good time and girls know that when they go there, having a one night stand is a possibility.
If you're a good looking guy with good game, there seriously no reason why you cant pull pretty much every night you are there. My game in those places are different from my normal club game, in those places, I use the fact that I have a good body. If you have a good body walk around topless and girls come and touch you up rub your six pack, it's like shooting fish in the barrel. I also fast escalate in the bigger venues by just going for the instant makeout and three way kiss with another girl. Then when you find your girl, take her by the hand and lead her back to yours, I found you get less resistance. You can get away with a lot more.
Other than that just go and have a good time, you come home feeling disgusting but you will do some disgusting things. Dont get arrested like I did because foreign police are notoriously corrupt.
If you're a good looking guy with good game, there seriously no reason why you cant pull pretty much every night you are there. My game in those places are different from my normal club game, in those places, I use the fact that I have a good body. If you have a good body walk around topless and girls come and touch you up rub your six pack, it's like shooting fish in the barrel. I also fast escalate in the bigger venues by just going for the instant makeout and three way kiss with another girl. Then when you find your girl, take her by the hand and lead her back to yours, I found you get less resistance. You can get away with a lot more.
Other than that just go and have a good time, you come home feeling disgusting but you will do some disgusting things. Dont get arrested like I did because foreign police are notoriously corrupt.
old_skoolr
Master Don Juan
cheers for the advice, I don't have a great bod and unlike most guys I don't wax my chest, so I have a fair amount of chest hair (which I try and keep groomed)
My friend told me to just go around and say hi, since apparently the european girls love the aussie accent. So i'll give it a shot
My friend told me to just go around and say hi, since apparently the european girls love the aussie accent. So i'll give it a shot
Mr Wright hit the nail on the head. Quick escalation is your friend. I'm pretty forward at home and can get a make-out with a girl without much talking, on holiday even more so.
While I haven't been to the Greek Islands I've been to a place much like it, and I had a blast, although I did nearly end up getting arrested on my most promising night haha. Moral of that story is not to ride bicycles when you are hammered.
Just put yourself out there, dance with everyone you like the look of, and make a move. Go in with the mind-set that you are never going to see these girls again, because you aren't, especially if you're from down under. It is literally a no loose situation.
So you don't have a body that makes all women drop their panties. No big deal. Just have a bit of confidence with what you got and keep making moves and have fun. That's all you really need.
Gunner
While I haven't been to the Greek Islands I've been to a place much like it, and I had a blast, although I did nearly end up getting arrested on my most promising night haha. Moral of that story is not to ride bicycles when you are hammered.
Just put yourself out there, dance with everyone you like the look of, and make a move. Go in with the mind-set that you are never going to see these girls again, because you aren't, especially if you're from down under. It is literally a no loose situation.
So you don't have a body that makes all women drop their panties. No big deal. Just have a bit of confidence with what you got and keep making moves and have fun. That's all you really need.
Gunner
Great advice in this thread so far.
Just to reiterate, you're never seeing these girls again. Have some fun with them and escalate quickly because you'll be forgotten extremely fast if you beat around the bush.
Just to reiterate, you're never seeing these girls again. Have some fun with them and escalate quickly because you'll be forgotten extremely fast if you beat around the bush.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Mike32ct
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I've never been there, but here is general vacation game advice:
Always game as close as possible to your hotel.
Hotel bar, beach in front of hotel, bar/club next door, etc.
Don't be the guy trying to convince a girl that "It's only a 45 minute cab/taxi ride back to my hotel" LOL.
Always game as close as possible to your hotel.
Hotel bar, beach in front of hotel, bar/club next door, etc.
Don't be the guy trying to convince a girl that "It's only a 45 minute cab/taxi ride back to my hotel" LOL.