Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Holiday Advice

old_skoolr

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hey guys am going to be in the greek islands partying it up for a few weeks. Heard some crazy things but would like to know if you guys have any advice or have been there before...am absolutely pumped to go!!!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Mr Wright

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Yeah, I've been to those sort of places. Fast escalation is king there. Everyone is drunk, having a good time and girls know that when they go there, having a one night stand is a possibility.

If you're a good looking guy with good game, there seriously no reason why you cant pull pretty much every night you are there. My game in those places are different from my normal club game, in those places, I use the fact that I have a good body. If you have a good body walk around topless and girls come and touch you up rub your six pack, it's like shooting fish in the barrel. I also fast escalate in the bigger venues by just going for the instant makeout and three way kiss with another girl. Then when you find your girl, take her by the hand and lead her back to yours, I found you get less resistance. You can get away with a lot more.

Other than that just go and have a good time, you come home feeling disgusting but you will do some disgusting things. Dont get arrested like I did because foreign police are notoriously corrupt.
 

old_skoolr

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cheers for the advice, I don't have a great bod and unlike most guys I don't wax my chest, so I have a fair amount of chest hair (which I try and keep groomed)

My friend told me to just go around and say hi, since apparently the european girls love the aussie accent. So i'll give it a shot
 

Gunner26

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Mr Wright hit the nail on the head. Quick escalation is your friend. I'm pretty forward at home and can get a make-out with a girl without much talking, on holiday even more so.

While I haven't been to the Greek Islands I've been to a place much like it, and I had a blast, although I did nearly end up getting arrested on my most promising night haha. Moral of that story is not to ride bicycles when you are hammered.

Just put yourself out there, dance with everyone you like the look of, and make a move. Go in with the mind-set that you are never going to see these girls again, because you aren't, especially if you're from down under. It is literally a no loose situation.

So you don't have a body that makes all women drop their panties. No big deal. Just have a bit of confidence with what you got and keep making moves and have fun. That's all you really need.

Gunner
 

BigSmooth

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Great advice in this thread so far.


Just to reiterate, you're never seeing these girls again. Have some fun with them and escalate quickly because you'll be forgotten extremely fast if you beat around the bush.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mike32ct

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I've never been there, but here is general vacation game advice:

Always game as close as possible to your hotel.

Hotel bar, beach in front of hotel, bar/club next door, etc.

Don't be the guy trying to convince a girl that "It's only a 45 minute cab/taxi ride back to my hotel" LOL.
 
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