"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

holding it together.

M

mojo16

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 17, 2010
Messages
50
Reaction score
2
guys I need some advice.
I've been 'friends' with this girl for about 2 years, and a few weeks ago I threw caution to the wind and kissed her. she was a little thrown off but kissed me back and all was fine. After that I kept my distance and she texted me a few days later asking to catch up, we went out last night, had a good night and I kissed her again when I dropped her home.
I think I'm at the tricky bit now.... to be honest I'm totally head-over-heels for this girl, and I need to keep my cool. I need advice on how I should approach the situation from here, should I ask her on a 'date' or keep it casual? any thing else I should know? Thanks in advance.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

A

ARrocket

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 6, 2008
Messages
1,411
Reaction score
37
Location
East Coast USA
There is an excellent article posted a few days ago by Jariel. I want you to read it.

You definitely need to just isolate her, and make a move. By move, I mean keep escalating forward with her. You already threw caution to the wind, it worked out well. She seems to be interested, so don't slow down now. Strike while the iron is hot. Keep pushing forward; you clearly want a relationship, but act like it's just any other girl as best as you can. It will keep you making crisp, clean decisions, and you'll enjoy much greater success. You don't wanna turn into wussy nice boy now!
 
W

Warrior74

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 25, 2008
Messages
5,106
Reaction score
230
ARrocket said:
There is an excellent article posted a few days ago by Jariel. I want you to read it.

You definitely need to just isolate her, and make a move. By move, I mean keep escalating forward with her. You already threw caution to the wind, it worked out well. She seems to be interested, so don't slow down now. Strike while the iron is hot. Keep pushing forward; you clearly want a relationship, but act like it's just any other girl as best as you can. It will keep you making crisp, clean decisions, and you'll enjoy much greater success. You don't wanna turn into wussy nice boy now!
Click to expand...
THIS.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top