"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mojo16

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guys I need some advice.
I've been 'friends' with this girl for about 2 years, and a few weeks ago I threw caution to the wind and kissed her. she was a little thrown off but kissed me back and all was fine. After that I kept my distance and she texted me a few days later asking to catch up, we went out last night, had a good night and I kissed her again when I dropped her home.
I think I'm at the tricky bit now.... to be honest I'm totally head-over-heels for this girl, and I need to keep my cool. I need advice on how I should approach the situation from here, should I ask her on a 'date' or keep it casual? any thing else I should know? Thanks in advance.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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There is an excellent article posted a few days ago by Jariel. I want you to read it.

You definitely need to just isolate her, and make a move. By move, I mean keep escalating forward with her. You already threw caution to the wind, it worked out well. She seems to be interested, so don't slow down now. Strike while the iron is hot. Keep pushing forward; you clearly want a relationship, but act like it's just any other girl as best as you can. It will keep you making crisp, clean decisions, and you'll enjoy much greater success. You don't wanna turn into wussy nice boy now!
 
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ARrocket said:
There is an excellent article posted a few days ago by Jariel. I want you to read it.

You definitely need to just isolate her, and make a move. By move, I mean keep escalating forward with her. You already threw caution to the wind, it worked out well. She seems to be interested, so don't slow down now. Strike while the iron is hot. Keep pushing forward; you clearly want a relationship, but act like it's just any other girl as best as you can. It will keep you making crisp, clean decisions, and you'll enjoy much greater success. You don't wanna turn into wussy nice boy now!
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THIS.
 
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