"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Holding in your feelings

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hi, my first tip written here at DJ. ]
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people say "Men don't cry, only sissys do"

well I have to say we are humans, if you don't cry there is something wrong with you.

now here's from what I had experience. I had several broken hearts in the past. I use to hold the feeling inside me, or get angry at family,friends, and everyone for no reason.

One time I just had enough, the tears drip out my eyes, I started to cry even more, at first I thought about why I got dumped and things.

After few more broken hearts (and crying), I put all the problems on myself, then I realized what my problem is.

It gives me motivation to change these problems, it doesn't do that when I hold in my feeling. I think that me cried somehow changed the way I think.

If you hold your feelings in for too long, and you think crying is stupid. YOU ARE IN DENIAL!


go on! let it out, it feels good to cry once in a while (not all the time though) ;)
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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