"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I find this sort of thing really uncompfortable..likes its being submissive..girly even but I seem to get a good responce from it..I don't like it cause its extra feminin and alpha me..dont play that **** ..what you guys think..is it acceptable to hold a girls hand while at the movies..with you initiating it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It's not submisive...it's possessive!:cool: You're showing her that she belongs to YOU. It shows everyone who sees the pair of you that you are a couple.

ALSO....

It's a GREAT way to initiate kino! Use your imagination! You have control of her hand USE IT!
While holding her hand:

Kiss it;)
Nibble on her fingers:whistle:
Suck her fingers:crazy:
Rub the back of her hand on your body:up:
 
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WaterTiger said:
It's not submisive...it's possessive!:cool: You're showing her that she belongs to YOU. It shows everyone who sees the pair of you that you are a couple.

ALSO....

It's a GREAT way to initiate kino! Use your imagination! You have control of her hand USE IT!
While holding her hand:

Kiss it;)
Nibble on her fingers:whistle:
Suck her fingers:crazy:
Rub the back of her hand on your body:up:
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Agreed.

It can show a lot of dominance. I kind of use it as a reward system. She does something kind of cute, I grab her hand and smile at her. If she does something really sexy, I grab her by something else. Make sure YOU are the one initiating and breaking the hand holding. If something comes up that grabs your attention, break the hold. Or break the hold for no reason at all. This shows that she isn't your top priority.

Hand-holding may sound feminine but it's not. It's just another form of kino that can be used effectively.
 
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