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I find this sort of thing really uncompfortable..likes its being submissive..girly even but I seem to get a good responce from it..I don't like it cause its extra feminin and alpha me..dont play that **** ..what you guys think..is it acceptable to hold a girls hand while at the movies..with you initiating it?
 

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It's not submisive...it's possessive!:cool: You're showing her that she belongs to YOU. It shows everyone who sees the pair of you that you are a couple.

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It's a GREAT way to initiate kino! Use your imagination! You have control of her hand USE IT!
While holding her hand:

Kiss it;)
Nibble on her fingers:whistle:
Suck her fingers:crazy:
Rub the back of her hand on your body:up:
 
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WaterTiger said:
It's not submisive...it's possessive!:cool: You're showing her that she belongs to YOU. It shows everyone who sees the pair of you that you are a couple.

ALSO....

It's a GREAT way to initiate kino! Use your imagination! You have control of her hand USE IT!
While holding her hand:

Kiss it;)
Nibble on her fingers:whistle:
Suck her fingers:crazy:
Rub the back of her hand on your body:up:
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Agreed.

It can show a lot of dominance. I kind of use it as a reward system. She does something kind of cute, I grab her hand and smile at her. If she does something really sexy, I grab her by something else. Make sure YOU are the one initiating and breaking the hand holding. If something comes up that grabs your attention, break the hold. Or break the hold for no reason at all. This shows that she isn't your top priority.

Hand-holding may sound feminine but it's not. It's just another form of kino that can be used effectively.
 
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