"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Holding hands with your biatch

Reykhel

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So I'm walking down the street tonight....relatively narrow but wide enough
for 3/4 persons......when this couple, a fat cvnt and his hoe come around the
corner....holding hands. Now, I'll give way to anybody it's no big deal.....be like
water is the way to go......but not with a couple who are holding hands and step
into my path....if I step into their path, fair enough I'll walk around....

...they walk into my path and instead of breaking their fvcking unbreakable love link
and walking around Reykhel, they continue and walk right into him.....the girl is pulling the
fat cvnt to one side, but the entitled-I'm-in-a-couple-so-I'm a smug-fat cvnt-with-more-rights-than-you...fat cvnt whacks into Reykhel. Sorry fat cvnt Reykhel is not being water tonight, he's being an
oak tree. "Watch were you're going" the fat cvnt had the audacity to say to Reykhel...

It's like a sense of entitlement....I'm in a couple, I'm in a couple, ain't life grand

anyone else want to punch self-entitled couples like this?

anyone here a fan of holding hands with your hoe?

Now, this might sound cynical and I remember making this comment to a friend "I'm sick of couples walking toward me and not breaking their love link" ....and his response..."you're jealous"

really?

I'v never been a fan of hand holding, especially walking down a busy street. I find in encumbersome and not very practical. I'm an adult...do I really need to be holding another adult's hand walking down the street?

Am I the only one who finds it a little ridiculous?

I've had more than one girl think it was a sign of disinterest because I didn't hold her hand walking down the street.....which was untrue, I did have interest but now you said that I think you're a ****head....

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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marmel75

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Haha. man F that dude...he's trying to show out to impress his girl.

Its like what happened yesterday to me at work. My job is door to door sales for a cable company. I walk up to a house and a guy comes to the door and tells me "I'm sick of you muthafvckers and the next time you come to my door I'm gonna punch you in the face"

So I walk away from his house to the sidewalk, put my stuff down and tell him "You don't need to wait until next time, bro. You can come outside and do it right now."

Of course the guy just stands there and keeps talking trash, so I tell him "Either come off your porch and do something or go inside, work on learning some manners, and shut your mouth." The guy tells me off then slams the door shut.

Yeah I know it might come off as unprofessional but I'm a grown man first and an employee second, and I don't let anyone talk to me like that.
 

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I don't think it's just an "I've got a gf so I rule the world" mentality, I think that a lot of people today are just inconsiderate. People who park their damn shopping carts across the fvcking aisle so you can't get by, having a conversation with their buddy while blocking a narrow hallway, walking across a busy street expecting traffic to just stop, and the list goes on and on.

I have no problems holding hands. Women like that kind of 5hit when they're proud of the guy they're with. But if I was that couple, that hand would get dropped in the name of being considerate.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I don't think it's just an "I've got a gf so I rule the world" mentality, I think that a lot of people today are just inconsiderate. People who park their damn shopping carts across the fvcking aisle so you can't get by, having a conversation with their buddy while blocking a narrow hallway, walking across a busy street expecting traffic to just stop, and the list goes on and on.

I have no problems holding hands. Women like that kind of 5hit when they're proud of the guy they're with. But if I was that couple, that hand would get dropped in the name of being considerate.
Yeah you're probably right Des, maybe it's a consideration thing. I think I'm generally a considerate person...
generally ;) and when I have expectations...well...

I'm not 100% opposed to the holding hands.....just not on a busy street and not all of the time!!!!!!!
after 5 minutes I want my hand back!!!!! I kind of feel the same way about PDA's too.....

I hate when a girl wants to be all over me in public......and it kind of makes me sick when I see another
coulple all over each other in public...

...maybe I'm getting old......and grumpy...

Tictac.....fancy a beer, man? ;)
 

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Well clearly the guy is an inconsiderate prick. Men like this are usually pvssies.
 

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Ruler, that guy tried to punch you in the nuts? That is wrong. Don't do that. You're supposed to kick, not punch. It's a snap kick upward with your front foot.
 

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I often find a couple standing right in front of me in public transport etc and kissing etc. It peeves me no end. It sometimes feels like they get a kick out of doing that $hit in front of a hot guy.
 
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