"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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LandingWood

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If you're talking to a female and she can't hold a slightly intelligent conversation, do you next her?

I guess in other words do you guys next shallow chicks or do I have an odd preference?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I can get at least one intelligent conversation out of everyone. Everyone has opinions on the human condition, the future, men and women.

If you are running into this problem regularly it's POSSIBLE that you may be the problem too...
 
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Take time finding out her hobbies and passions(if any) and then decide if she is compatible with you.

I did not have any "intelligent" discussions of ideas with my girlfriend for the first several months. Our mutual interests, hobbies and physical attraction sustained us until we became more comfortable in conversation.

But it sounds like you are on the right track. Many guys here only care about bedding a woman and couldn't care less about what they have to say. Good luck!
 
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