"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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holding a conversation..

LandingWood

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If you're talking to a female and she can't hold a slightly intelligent conversation, do you next her?

I guess in other words do you guys next shallow chicks or do I have an odd preference?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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FairShake

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I can get at least one intelligent conversation out of everyone. Everyone has opinions on the human condition, the future, men and women.

If you are running into this problem regularly it's POSSIBLE that you may be the problem too...
 

Man on Fire

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Take time finding out her hobbies and passions(if any) and then decide if she is compatible with you.

I did not have any "intelligent" discussions of ideas with my girlfriend for the first several months. Our mutual interests, hobbies and physical attraction sustained us until we became more comfortable in conversation.

But it sounds like you are on the right track. Many guys here only care about bedding a woman and couldn't care less about what they have to say. Good luck!
 
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