"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hockey Playa's Workout Journal

Hockey Playa

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Well I've finally got enough motivation to keep track of my progress on here, as well as receive advice on my workouts and diet:)

Background: i have been playing comptetive sports since about 7 years old. I played AAA hockey and baseball, which gave me year round activites. This has gave me very consistent low body fat, and metabolism. Started lifting 3 years ago. At the time i was uneducated, and just did machines, Bicep curls, haha you know how it goes..About 1 year ago, i really read alot of posts and researched working out on this site, and starting to lift sensibly. Incorporated the BP, Squats, Deads Chinups, Dips into my workout. My biggest obstacle has been my diet. I used to eat whatever i wanted, when i wanted, with no consequences because of my metabolism, but could never get cut. After becoming informed about the importance of diet, i have successfully, dropped sodas, most of fast foods, and sugars out of my diet. I still have a huge problem incorporating enough protein. Im basically a huge carb man. I have also took supplement advice, and incorporated, Omega3, Vitamin C, multi vitamin, and green tea extract into my diet:)

Current Stats: Age 18(almost 19), 5'11 1/2, 183 lbs
Goals: -Have a good Beach Body by summer, and continue making gains, without losing to much flexibility
3 main goals by june: Bench: 2 plates(225) Deadlift: 3 plates(315) Squat: plates(315)

[Todays's Workout] I have just recovered from a nasty cold that had sapped my energy pretty good. I gave myself enough time to make sure i was better though, like you guys suggested. Since i work on a 3 day split today was my BACK, and SHOULDERS day.

Deadlift:
2 warmup sets
205lbs X 10(reps)
225 X 8
225 X 8

DB Shoulder Press:
50lbs X 12
55 X 10
55 X 8
60 X 6

Barbell Bent-over Rows: ]
115lbs X 10
125 X 8
125 X6

Seated DB Side Raises:
25 X 12
25 X 10
25 X 8

Lat Pulldowns(machine):
80 X 12
90 X 10
100 X 8


Weighted Hyper Extensions(45lbs):
12 reps
12
12

**Shower, Sauna, protein shake to end***
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Hockey Playa

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Workout Description: Felt Really motivated to workout today, lots of energy, unfortunately my schedule would not allow me to go till late at night 9:45-11p.m. Today i did CHEST + TRI's + TRAPS

**5 min bike for warmup, stretch

Benchpress:
135 - warmup
215 - 2 reps, 2 negs (dont know why i started with this, thought i could do more)
185 - 6 reps, 2 negs
185 - 4 reps, 2 negs
155 - 8 reps
135 - 15 reps cooldown

Barbell Shrugs:
135 - warmup set
185 - 11 reps
205 - 10 reps
215 - 8 reps


Pull-downs(machine)
:
90 - 12
100 - 10
110 - 8

Incline DB press:
55lbs - 12
60 - 10
60 - 8

Flies
30lbs x 12
30 X 10
30 X 9

Hanging Dips:
8 reps
****could not complete my sets because gym closed and i got booted (N)
 

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Workout Description: I was getting really down with myself, because i hadnt worked out in 4 days, and i had drank 2 of the last 4 nights(for my friends 19th birthdays which only happen once right:yes: ). It was supposed to be my lower body next, but i have hockey 2morrow, which would be not allow me to do lower. I decided to go for and simply do BI's, and ABS

Chin-Ups:
10
6
4 ( my strength seems to really decrease after the 1st set)

BB Curls:
95 x 12
105 X 10
115 X 8

DB Seated Curls(alternating arms):
30lbs X 12
35 x 10
40 x 8

** ABS 15 mins @ end
 

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Workout Description: Havent worked out the past week. I had food poisoning and was throwing up with no appetite. Lost 5 lbs. Feel great today, decided to get into my routine. Today i did LOWER BODY + ABS

Warmup: run 5 mins

Squats: (based on WBA , told me not to pyramid weights)
135warmup
185 X 12
185 X 10
185 X 7
185 X 5

Legs Press:
250 warmup
310 X 12
310 X 10
310 X 10

Calf Raises: (based on knowledge learned here that calves respond better to higher reps)
130 X 20
130 X 15
130 X 11

Decline Weighted Situps:
10
10
10

Medicine ball seated twists:

2 sets of 30
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hockey Playa said:
im confused, i do basically everything it outlines there. I jog or bike for 5 mins, stretch, and do 1-2 warmup sets of each exercise...
You didn't read the article properly.

"If you are benching or rowing or doing pulldowns with 205 x 5 a good warm-up would be:

Bar x 12
85 x 6
115 x 5
145 x 3
165 x 1
185 x 1
205 x 5 workset"

You can get a spreadsheet that calculates your warmup set weights for you at http://www.ironaddicts.com/forums/showthread.php?t=3404&page=4&highlight=warmup+spreadsheet
 

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Worksets will vary depending on your workload. For the static weight you're using, any more than 2 sets would be overkill especially when combined with the presses.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Workout Description: Feeling fine, did BACK + BI's, with lots of energy and little time between sets

Deadlift:
bar warmup
135 x 5
155 x 3
185 x 2
Worksets: 205 X 8
205 X 8
225 X 8

Chinups: 10, 6, 5

Lat Pulldowns
90 x 9
90 X9
90 X 9

Bent-Over Rows Machine ( dunno whats it proper name is)
added 65 pounds x 8
x8
x8

BB curls::
25 + bar x10
30 x 6
30 x 6

Hyper extensions:
holding 45 lbs
10
10
10
 

Hockey Playa

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Workout Description: was feeling a little lethargic, but dragged my ass to the gym anyway. Today was LEGS + CORE

Squats

warmup bar
135 x 5
185 x 5
215(workset) x 10
215 x 8
215 x 7
135 X 15 cooldown
******I am still unsure of my bench form, it seems to hurt my back sometimes, so i have decided to video tape myself next week, and post it here for comments

Medicine ball twists
40
35

Leg Press

250 warmup
330 X 10
330 X 10
330 X 10

Calf Raises:
140 x 10
130 X 15
120 X 18 (higher reps)

Floor Wiper ( attempted these with a 10 lbs bar)
5 ( 1 each direction)
5

Decline weighted situps
10
10
10
 
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