"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I dont do much, I weight lift and I got a good body but i dont do any sports. I was thinking about boxing. I used to be a wrestler and play football. Im doing this so i have something to talk about and give a girl the idea of me as a prize.

But if i do boxing my face will prolly get ****ed up and ill prolly be smaller too (cardio reduces muscle mass).

Is there anything that I can do ya think? Any

TELL ME SOME HOBBIES YOU DO THAT IMPRESS THE LADIES?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Some may disagree with me but I think you need to look at this differently. Find something that you like to do, not because it will impress someone else. If it will impress her it will probably be in your passion in how you describe it not with what it is. Having said that guns and personal protection is one of my hobbies, I also teach firearm safety on the side as a hobby.
 
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a couple of my (physically active) hobbies are:

- hiking. im down with hiking because i like being outdoors; its adventurous; builds endurance and leg strength; i feel an incredible adrenaline rush when i reach the top of the mountain.

- basketball. builds stamina; can be very competitive; simply fun.

as stated by tx_xp, youve got to do it for yourself. not because it makes you look cool or more of a man, but because its a natural high. chicks dig guys whove got passion for their life.
 
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Martial arts, breakdancing, any sport, guitar, mountain climbing. Chicks will dig anything you do if you are passionate about it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My two physical hobbies are boxing and european long sword fighting. Its not what you do as has been reiterated by others, but how strong you are about it. Both are things I really enjoy. People look at me funny when I start telling them about the sword training though...:)
 
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Well,
I agree with everyone here. Don't take up an activity for a chick, give me a break :rolleyes: ! YOU should think of what interests YOU like and YOU will enjoy them not to impress girls but because it brings satisifaction to YOURSELF doing what you love. Anyways, the physical activities I participate in are raquetball, basketball, and I'm going to start rock climbing soon and maybe a martial art. Just try some activities out, I'm sure you can get a free lesson or two.
Good luck
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sports i do at school are cross country and wrestling. some of my hobbies are fishing, sailing and surfing
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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