"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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gonnamakeit

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Skip first part if you like not related to question.

Whats up guys. Haven't been on this site in forever don't know if anyone followed my bootcamp or anything but I made great progress since then. Finally got a date of a direct approach hey lately not as much going on which I'll explain in a minute but I am totally different guy now very confident in most situations and everyone notices plus I way back when had trouble even getting a freinds number now thats normal for me its so cool now all social things just seem easy and like they were never not and I have some good goals for before the new year that'll really get me more consistent.

Well anyway. I have now ended up with a great deal of time during the day with no job at the moment (should get one soon however it'll likely end up being short hours so this'll still apply if it is long hours whatever I'll just do that once I get it). My weekday evenings I am always busy.

Now I am 17 and most everyone my age is at school during the day and older people are at work. I want to be around more people and learn and improve myself in more ways. So I want to have different activities and hobbies that will help/improve me and also are social with boys and girls. I can travel to a large city a few hours away so I should be able to find most things you recommend. The main problem is that most activities classes etc seem to be in the evening so preferably ideas of things that may happen during early afternoon.


My ideas so far

Dancing (tango salsa etc. Seems great for confidence being sexual/touching girls and doing those things is of course tons of fun.:D )

Hip hop/break dancing (fun want to learn to dance great confidence builder)

Toastmasters (it is a public speaking club)

Now what else? all suggestions welcome (social job ideas that are during the day and volunteering would be great as well) Thanks alot for helping out.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Semtex

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Try volunteering at an Animal rescue shelter, you have no idea how many women will look upto you if you mention this, that is beside the multitude of women you'll be meeting on the job.
 

gonnamakeit

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good idea thanks I'll look in to that.
 

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Get a job with real hours.

Jobs center lives. Sounds pathetic but it's true for most.
 
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