"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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gonnamakeit

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Skip first part if you like not related to question.

Whats up guys. Haven't been on this site in forever don't know if anyone followed my bootcamp or anything but I made great progress since then. Finally got a date of a direct approach hey lately not as much going on which I'll explain in a minute but I am totally different guy now very confident in most situations and everyone notices plus I way back when had trouble even getting a freinds number now thats normal for me its so cool now all social things just seem easy and like they were never not and I have some good goals for before the new year that'll really get me more consistent.

Well anyway. I have now ended up with a great deal of time during the day with no job at the moment (should get one soon however it'll likely end up being short hours so this'll still apply if it is long hours whatever I'll just do that once I get it). My weekday evenings I am always busy.

Now I am 17 and most everyone my age is at school during the day and older people are at work. I want to be around more people and learn and improve myself in more ways. So I want to have different activities and hobbies that will help/improve me and also are social with boys and girls. I can travel to a large city a few hours away so I should be able to find most things you recommend. The main problem is that most activities classes etc seem to be in the evening so preferably ideas of things that may happen during early afternoon.


My ideas so far

Dancing (tango salsa etc. Seems great for confidence being sexual/touching girls and doing those things is of course tons of fun.:D )

Hip hop/break dancing (fun want to learn to dance great confidence builder)

Toastmasters (it is a public speaking club)

Now what else? all suggestions welcome (social job ideas that are during the day and volunteering would be great as well) Thanks alot for helping out.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Semtex

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Try volunteering at an Animal rescue shelter, you have no idea how many women will look upto you if you mention this, that is beside the multitude of women you'll be meeting on the job.
 

gonnamakeit

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good idea thanks I'll look in to that.
 

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Get a job with real hours.

Jobs center lives. Sounds pathetic but it's true for most.
 
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