"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Hobbies of a man.
- Thread starter DJ Bax
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
The_flying_dutchman
Senior Don Juan
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Lift weights. And occassionally will build motorcycles.
BraddH
Master Don Juan
Death is part of life and we cannot just go on livin an living. We need death to take many misery, many worries in our life so that we can keep on going living even stronger and with more vitality.
Stort_Brød
Senior Don Juan
Also other manly hobbies include lifting really heavy stuff and putting it back down multiple times. Absolutely love weight training.
Car enthusiast whether it be working on or driving a car I am always happy with the smell of petrol and burning rubber.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
LiveFreeX
Banned
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Master Don Juan
I'm probably going to start doing meditation. I plan on starting skydiving and scuba diving here in a couple of years when the finances allow it.
Wolfgang D
Senior Don Juan
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Fishing in the summer. Father and uncle are hunters.DJ Bax said:
Women say it is terrible to kill innocent animals. I say innocence is irrelevant (especially for the animals, who only favor themselves or their pack). The animals are going to die in a few months or years anyway; this way they come to good use, by providing food and recreation for those who are productive and bring life on this planet forward to new scientific heights, which animals are unable to do. Seeing dying first-hand also gives us a valuable perspective. Thus, hunting and fishing are moral activities. Opposing them creates wussy, emasculated men, which does not help the species or life as a whole, and is therefore immoral.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
My complaint about hunting is not hunting itself, but the state's control of it as a lucrative fee-generating business. They want the deer to be overpopulated, so they can sell permits, issue fines, and collect taxes on everything hunters buy. The state claims all deer as state property, even when they are on my land, eating my crops. Killing one out of season is "poaching" and carries a jail sentence. There are nuisance permits for farmers, but they make it prohibitively difficult to get enough permits to make a difference.
It is ridiculous that it's 'go-to-jail' illegal to kill an overpopulated animal on private land, especially one that is doing damage. I think "conservation" means conserving the state's profits, not the animal species.