Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Hobbies of a man.
- Thread starter DJ Bax
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
The_flying_dutchman
Senior Don Juan
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Lift weights. And occassionally will build motorcycles.
BraddH
Master Don Juan
Death is part of life and we cannot just go on livin an living. We need death to take many misery, many worries in our life so that we can keep on going living even stronger and with more vitality.
Stort_Brød
Senior Don Juan
Also other manly hobbies include lifting really heavy stuff and putting it back down multiple times. Absolutely love weight training.
Car enthusiast whether it be working on or driving a car I am always happy with the smell of petrol and burning rubber.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
LiveFreeX
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Master Don Juan
I'm probably going to start doing meditation. I plan on starting skydiving and scuba diving here in a couple of years when the finances allow it.
Wolfgang D
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Fishing in the summer. Father and uncle are hunters.DJ Bax said:
Women say it is terrible to kill innocent animals. I say innocence is irrelevant (especially for the animals, who only favor themselves or their pack). The animals are going to die in a few months or years anyway; this way they come to good use, by providing food and recreation for those who are productive and bring life on this planet forward to new scientific heights, which animals are unable to do. Seeing dying first-hand also gives us a valuable perspective. Thus, hunting and fishing are moral activities. Opposing them creates wussy, emasculated men, which does not help the species or life as a whole, and is therefore immoral.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
My complaint about hunting is not hunting itself, but the state's control of it as a lucrative fee-generating business. They want the deer to be overpopulated, so they can sell permits, issue fines, and collect taxes on everything hunters buy. The state claims all deer as state property, even when they are on my land, eating my crops. Killing one out of season is "poaching" and carries a jail sentence. There are nuisance permits for farmers, but they make it prohibitively difficult to get enough permits to make a difference.
It is ridiculous that it's 'go-to-jail' illegal to kill an overpopulated animal on private land, especially one that is doing damage. I think "conservation" means conserving the state's profits, not the animal species.